My boyfriend said I should get breast implants? Should I?

I told him I don't feel sexy because my boobs are so small. He suggested I should get breast implants. I know they are small but are small breasts really that bad? Are small boobs a turn off for men? Can small boobs be sexy? Or do they have to be big for men to want them? I feel so ugly and unwanted. Even by my own boyfriend and I feel so pathetic for crying about it.

This isn't a picture of me but her body is similar to mine. Slim with small boobs. Would I look better with breast implants? Should I get them?
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This was the first time I ever said anything. I was trying on a bathing suit and I said how unsexy I felt. I have never complained about my small boobs to him until now. We were also at the beach and he was staring at girls with big boobs the whole time.
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  • Flat out: NO! But anyone can read into this situation and give you a simple yes/no; I shall elaborate.

    I'm 29 and I've seen how things steadily evolve and progress with the dating scene. I'm also a wedding photographer my trade so I've seen many, many forms of love. That being said, you're on the wrong grounds for implants. First off, a woman should NOT ever decide to get them after crying in emotional defeat. If a woman decides to, it should be because she's comfortably thought of pros and cons, thinking "wow, okay, I think I'll go ahead and do it" while maintaining a clear mind throughout. Second, I wish you the best of luck with this but if he can't accept you for who you are now, then I think you may want to reconsider the relationship with him.

    Your boyfriend is wrong to tell you to do something like that to YOUR body. That's selfish and superficial of him. Unfortunately I understand that it maybe emotionally arduous for you to be rational about his opinion seeing as you're emotionally involved with him and are prone to biased decisions to ultimately keep him happy and in a relationship with you. However, before you can make someone else happy, you must be happy with yourself first.

    Speaking for serious relationships, at the age I'm at things like breast size are much less relevant. Priorities change and your boyfriend is lagging it a bit. He should support you in whatever you decide to do but loving you unconditionally through e-ve-ry-thing.

    Also, I just want to say I've seen very confident girls of all shapes. The single hottest thing about a girl is being as confident as can be in whatever body she has. Most of the time they're also humble and very understanding. Any guy that doesn't see that attractive or wants to change you isn't ready for something serious. Straight and simple. Take care of yourself.

  • To me, the gal in the picture is very hot. so if that is what you look like, you are hot. Yes small boobs can be very sexy. And I think she would hurt her looks by getting them.

    Realize that your boyfriend may just have been saying that because you sounded like that is what you want.

    In any case, do it only for you. A guy who wants you different than you are is not worth the powder to blow him to hell.

    • Thank you for MHGuy :-) I really meant what I said about the gal in that picture being Hot! If I was with her trying on swimsuits I would probably want her to keep trying on man, so I could see her boobs in many ways. Whatever your decision, I hope it makes you happy.

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  • Please accept yourself for who you are, i see FAR too many questions like this on here constantly, every day, 24/7 and i will tell you what i told them, boobs are just boobs to 99% of guys, the other 1% are immature who haven't got a clue how to treat women. What your boyfriend said to you was insensitive and not great on your self-exteem, he should of known better than to answer you truthfully because men who really know women know that with all the pressures from the media and other femalles.

    Women are super insecure with their bodies, but to answer you and say to get a boob job isn't what he should of said... please please love yourself. My boobs are B cup but yet i've had no complaints and your boyfriend had 0 complaints about your boobs ether before you even mentioned it, so why think that he would care? why think your not good enough for him based on your looks when he clearly accepts you for who you are already? please don't worry about it, don't let anyone make you feel insecure about your body.

  • Sometimes guys say things without thinking about them. Before they even hear the reasoning they'll for you an answer
    I dated a guy and old him how I hated how fat I was, he suggested I lose weight. I assumed e thought I was fat and worked super hard. I went to soccer reactive without really eating anything. I was counting calories. I was at his house and almost passed out! He asked why I hadn't been eating regularly and I told it was because I thought I was fat because I thought he said I was fat.
    Turns out he didn't even think I was fat, he just offered up that idea because I said I didn't like myself. It was merely a suggestion with no thought, emotion or care behind it. So maybe your man think your breasts are already fine
    Also getting or wanting fake boobs is fine as long as you want them. Having fake boobs is fine as you want them. Who cares if he likes or hates your boobs. As long as you wake up and every time you look in the mirror your happy with what you see, then your fine.

  • If he doesn't love you for you. It isn't worth it. there are many issues with breast implants. They can hide breast cancer if you end up getting it and yes the technology has improved, but if you go for a mammogram they could accidentally break open. Also after a while you have to get them replaced. Your boyfriend doesn't love your body for what you have. You need a guy who loves you and appreciates your body for what you have. Take it from a girl who was happy with her breast size and an ex wanted them bigger but then when she met her husband. he constantly wants to see her breasts and play with them. My mother who is a mammographer says implants are the hardest thing to do, because she has to push them out of the way.

  • Go up a size if that will make you feel better. Just go sit for a consultation. It's not such a bad process to sit through.

    • Have you done it?

    • No, I need to stick with my small ones haha I went with my mom when she had to sit for her reduction consultation. Same difference lol It is expensive though and it's certainly not for everyone

    • Reduction? I don't want them any smaller. I need them bigger.

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  • Your boyfriend sounds like an ass. I'm a 32B and I love my size, there's nothing at all wrong with small boobs. Don't get implants just because he said that. If you're going to do it, do it because it's what YOU actually want.

  • Only do things for yourself, never let someone tell you different. If you feel like you'd be more confident and happier with implants then do it! If you're okay with having small breasts in the end then that's okay too, we're lucky that we get to change thing we don't like about ourselves, everyone thinks different in what they think would look better- so it's ultimately up to you and do what makes you happy (:

  • Change the partner, not the bewbage!

  • Smaller boobs are perfectly fine. I do think it's a personal preference but I don't think you should feel "less sexy" because there are guys who like big and small and in between. A lot of guys even complain about the "hardness" of the implants. I hear there's a risk of losing nipple sensitivity too (but I've also heard of it being increased as well). With surgery, there's always risks. Some even claim they only lose sensitivity on one breast and not the other. So you never know what category you'll end up in.

  • Unless you are as flat as an ironing board, NO. Even if you are that flat, keep it small. The age of "big boobs rule" is pretty much over.

    Big boobs causes back problems and if they are implants they just are not sexy. They instantly say "bimbo". Trust me there are plenty of guys who like smaller boobs. Besides if you end up getting pregnant, they will get bigger.

    • That doesn't matter because my boyfriend isn't one of the guys who likes smaller boobs. I'm also infertile.

    • Then you should find a guy that likes you for you. And sorry for bringing up the whole pregnancy subject, that was insensitive of me.

  • Sorry, but he sounds rather selfish. You're fine just the way you are. There are plenty of decent guys out there who'll appreciate or love you as you are now.

  • First; Never ever have "work" done to change your natural appearance. You are already the perfect you!
    The world is full of EXTREMELY sexy women who are A-cups. Breast size has nothing to do with sex appeal. Sex appeal comes from within.
    All you have to do is look around and you will find that sexy women have all different size of breasts. Your breasts are already perfect. Don't ever change them to suit someone else. Don't ever change anything to suit someone else!

  • The woman's body on the picture looks great in my opinion.
    You shouldn't get breast implants, small boobs are amazing!
    Also if a guy loves u he will love your boobs too

  • If you feel uncomfortable with your body to the point where you need to alter it, then you should go ahead and do it. If you want to get breast implants to please your boyfriend then I recommend you reconsider. You shouldn't do something so drastic to please someone else, it should be to please yourself. Also, I have quite small breasts (B cup) and I've found that they are incredibly attractive. Just because your breasts aren't large, it doesn't mean they're not amazing!

  • Getting a new boyfriend would be cheaper and better for you.

    • It isn't that simple. Does that girl look like she would look better with big boobs?

    • To me, no. She looks fine and proportionate. If YOU want implants and YOU will feel better with them then you should get them. That's not your boyfriend's decision.

  • Like others have said do it because u want to do it only if you want to not because of him or what other people are telling you but if u want to... although honestly any breast size can be sexy just be confident in them girl! Man I used to be a B a few years back before my late blooming kicked in and now im pretty much a D and honestly sometimes I miss my smaller boobs lol! The back pain sucks gurr.

  • No, you need a new boyfriend not new boobs! A cups are sexy, and in any event it's pretty controlling to suggest that a person you're dating get elective surgery!

  • Like @rthomas43 said, you don't have to do something because someone else told you. It's your body and you should be the only one who gets a say in what to do with it. He probably suggested that to make you feel like you weren't stuck with those forever, and if you really wanted to you could get them. I personally think that you'd look fine without them. Just do what you choose :)

  • You don't need them. Boobs don't make a woman. The right clothes and confidence in who she is does. Fuck the implants. You don't need them ;)

    • Does the woman in the picture look sexy even with her small chest? Or would she need big boobs to be sexy?

    • She's perfect the way she is :)

  • Personally, I think you're sexy as you are and don't need them. A few years ago, a friend of mine got implants and mentioned she was going to do so on FB beforehand. She was probably about a B cup size before. When I saw her I told her I thought she was incredible the way she was but that she should do what made her happy. She wasn't doing it for a guy, but for herself... that's what you need to ask yourself... make sure you're doing it for yourself and not for your boyfriend. Also, just my opinion but don't get ridiculously large ones if you do get implants... going up more than a couple of cup sizes just never looks normal... and I'm sure you want to look natural

  • don't be a fool... don't do what your bf says.

    do it ONLY if you want to

    • Does that woman look like she needs big boobs? My body is similar to hers.

  • you can manage without TBH. :/

    • Manage without what?

    • the implants

    • How can I manage without my boyfriend? I want him to be happy with my body.

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  • i love smaller breasts so i can completely grab with my hand!
    big boobs are gonna be annoying for you and fake ones aren't as aesthetic...

    The girl in the picture has a smoking hotbody!, if you look anything like that why would you want to change it

    tell him to get his penis enlarged... bet he wouldn't like that =P

    • Are you just saying that to be nice and convince me not to get implants? Do guys really find small boobs sexy?

    • i find most boobs sexy for me really it depends on the shape of the boobs and the nipples i am a nipple guy, not a big boob guy i like smaller petite/skinny girls so i am used to girls with smaller boobs, and i think its hot... I don't know all guys are different As long as you have a nice symmetry and perky nipples you are golden plus surgery is expensive!

  • Hell NO !
    Tell him to get a penis implant !!

  • If he was that unhappy with your body, he wouldn't have started dating you in the first place.

    Drrr drrr drrr

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