Should I let him cum inside me?

[Anonymous]

So I might be loosing my virginity next month, and we're not going to be using a condom since I'm on the pill. I want to feel closer to him and I think it would be so hot for him cum inside me. However, is this safe? I know that no contraceptive method is 100% effective but the pill is 99% effective and I take it everyday at the same time. This will both be our first times and I'm only fifteen, he's not my boyfriend but I love him (he's my ex, he says he loves me and the reason we're not in a relationship is because we know that it never works, we're better off as fwb) I know this makes me sound like such a naive little girl. My head is screwed on right now, and I am a responsibile girl. I got myself on the pill myself, I went to the doctors and everything. My parents have no idea, I booked the appointment my self and went to pharmacy to get the pills. I might get hate but I'm not focused on that I just want to know whether I should use a condom or not, should I let him cum inside me (if not would it be safe to have sex without one?) ? And just some advice around having sex! (BOTH OF US ARE CLEAN, WE DO NOT HAVE ANY SEXUAL DESEASES OR ANYTHING DOWN THERE!) thanks x

[hiskitty]

I was 15 and on birth control when I lost my virginity. Like you, I wanted my first time to be complete. I wanted that final intimate act of him filling me with his sperm. Afterward, I felt that I had been made a complete woman. I was very satisfied knowing that I was carrying in seed inside me.

However, given the state of your relationship with this guy, I suggest you wait for someone else. Wait for someone whose interests are much more than being the one to take your virginity and deflower you. When that someone comes along, and you’re still on birth control, by all means, forgo the condom. Experience the full enjoyment of being a woman by allowing him to pump you full of sperm, filling your womb with his seed. I feel every girl should be allowed the pleasure of her man inseminating her that first time.

[Anonymous]

An uncommitted partner will have no hesitation to sleep with someone else. Many (guys especially) don't show symptoms of stds, so most people aren't as clean as they think. Plus, most young guys would lie about sleeping with anyone else, so you can't rely on that.

Sex won't make him love you or choose you. Protect yourself, if you're going to make this choice. Lubricated condoms are best for starting sex. I don't necessarily think your decision is a great one, but if you're going to make it, do all you can to limit the fallout.

[275153]

Great advice.

[moistycakes]

I was on the pill for years and switched to the arm implant a few months ago. Even though the pill is in theory 98% effective that can vary a lot with different factors like if you take it at the exact same time every day, bodily functions, medication etc... I would suggest using a condom because there is a little bit of panic that can happen even on the pill. It's not foolproof, and for your first few times, play it safe. If you want to have sex with no condoms try a more foolproof method of birth control down the line.

[Anonymous]

He's you ex boyfriend; you love each other but it will never work for whatever mysterious reason; you're still going for sex and you want to let him cum inside because it's so hot.
Your head is screwed on right now, you said? Great story to tell your next boyfriend and grandchildren.

[275153]

Don't have sex yet sweetie. If you think you love him, sort out your feelings for him first before you have sex with him. Sex intensifies feelings (particularly in women) and you may end up feeling emotions that aren't there.

Also, you maybe putting him in danger of going to jail for statutory rape. Is it worth it?

Just think with your head and not with your heart. But, if you are going to do it anyway, use a condom.

[thelanatellama]

First off. Where are you currently living? Dependign on your country what you are doing could be illegal.
Second. If you're losing your virginity then you would deffinately be better of with someone you trust and are in a relationship. It's an intimate moment that you'll never be able to get back. Why waste it with someone you don't work with?

[Porter21]

Go for it if you want too! You will both love it!
I love to cum in a hot wet pussy it feels soooo good to cum that way mmmmm ahhhhhhh!!!

[CHARismatic110]

You're still young, the pill isn't always effective, and he's a friends with benefits . Use a condom.

[Richierich8787]

Wait until you're of age. And if you trust each other don't have him use a condom and let him come inside. Just make sure you're taking your BC correctly !

[Christopherson]

If you want to get pregnant then yeah lol. If not I don't even know how this could be a question.

[Christopherson]

Even on the pill and such its still worth using a condom, can you risk getting pregnant right now at all? Even the tiniest percent of risk? If not then condom.

[godurty]

If you are in safe period as per your masntrual cycle than you can go with out condom

[CVNT5]

MARRY HIM FIRST!!!

[jmmmfi]

Thats not a great idea

[Lillianascelin]

it feels soooooo good

[jlast]

I say condom, they don't just protect from getting. Pregnant, they keep you from getting some stds

[raspberry1]

So what was the result?

[salla123456]

Love creampie.

[Anonymous]

What did you end up doing?

[Anonymous]

You're a little young to be having sex but if you are going to do it you should use a condom, things could happen with the birth control and the likely hood of condoms and birth control failing is really low but birth control failing is entirely possible so please use a condom :)

[Anonymous]

Bad idea..