oh my god. ok your boyfriend sounds so inconsiderate. no offense or anything but this was supposed to be your special time not his. he has done before...he should have been more interested to make it good for you and not for himself and doing it doggy style. I don't think you have anything to make up for. I would be mad as balls. he should be apologizing to you not the opposite. but if you still want to make it up or whatever just make sure you discuss more what you re going to do with him before you do it. so that both of you know what to expect...
3 0 0 0Ok
Sounds like you two need to compromise. It's nice that you wanted to make it a special setting and everything, but you have to realize that guys have different fantasies than girls.
Also, your boyfriend should have been nicer to you about the whole experience. I don't know what he was expecting with it being your first time. Sounds like your guys' biggest problem is a lack of communication.3 0 0 0Then am I supposed to just do what he likes only?
No. You both need to try and fulfill each OTHER'S fantasies. It's not all about him and it's not all about you. It's about finding somewhere in between where you're both having a good time.
Never mind
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5 4Who cares about it being special for him. He lost his virginity. He was supposed to be pleasing you. It was your day.
0 0 0 0If your boyfriend is saying that to you he is a disrespectful idiot! The first time for someone is supposed to be so special and yeah, so what if you were following cliche you wanted it to be special! I don't even know why you would apologize, he should be the one apologizing for being a big asshole!
0 0 0 0how could you make it up to him? lmao, get real
gonna hope this isn't a serious question...but if it's true your boyfriend is basically a dbag and congrats on being dumb enough to stay with a guy like this1 0 5 0Yes this is a serious question,but I'm happy to know I can come on a site to ask for advice and just get ridiculed and not given advice
Let's see..you were a virgin and he knew this already yet, he expects you to be wet enough/want it faster/do different positions during your first time with him and YOU want to apologize? sorry, but you're dumb or blind to the douchebaggery.
If you aren't going to answer or give me advice,why the hell do you answer?
he doesn't deserve you at all
1 0 0 0Why?I'm sure he didn't mean to come off as rude,but I guess I should've kept his needs in mind when we did all of this
Not it should've been the other way around he should be more focused on ur needs then you satisfying his
Well what am I supposed to do?
girl, this is awful I showed my boyfriend this and he was very shocked and told me he would never treat me like that, you deserve way better and I hope you know that. Im so sorry this happened to you, your first time should be special and I wanted the same thing for mine but it didn't end up that way but I mean he treated me good and was very considerate about it but you should not apologize for anything you didn't do anything wrong he sounds like a complete ass and you deserve someone that will treat you right.
0 0 0 0woah, i guess he doesn't enjoy it, feels like he was unsatisfied,.
you can't make him feel better if you yourself wasn't satisfied with yourself
dont focus on making him feel better,. you have to enjoy it at the same time
You have to respect your body, and make him feel he owns it..0 0 0 0LOL he takes your v.card and you end up saying ur sorry to him? this guy got his b!tch in check
1 0 2 0he sounds like an a-hole, if I had a guy do that to me after I did all that to make it special I would kick him to the curve. he should've kept he's thoughts to himself. he's not worth it, I wouldn't be telling him sry for nothing and I wouldn't be making it up to him he would have to make it up to me and if he didn't it would tell him see you around.
4 0 0 0This is nothing more than another fake topic by WhoaHaHa on an alternate chick account to get people riled up ;)
0 0 4 1Excuse me?
If you aren't going to answer my Q,then don't answer
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