Is my wife no longer interested? Not attracted to me?
Ok, this is my first time on this. I'm 40 my wife 30. My wife and I have together for about 6 years, married for 4. We're great friends but like every relationship sex was great at first. As we matured in our relationship I started to realize that she really didn't like some of the things we were doing sexually. One thing in particular she was very uncomfortable with me touching her. Ok how am I going to say this, her, wow, vagina, ok I said it. The only way I could touch her is over her panties not directly under her panties. Like in foreplay I can't put my hand directly on her it must be over her panties. Shell pull away and she seems real uncomfortable with it. Also sex is now all up to me. Shell almost wait until I'm so ready, weeks will go by, and shell ask me do you want to do it and yes, so we do it, but she puts no effort in to it, I take care of her orally and then intercourse, very routine. Sex now is maybe once a month, that's only if I get so horny I can't stand it.
Now what's happening is, I want her to start something without saying do you want to do it so, Ill just take care of myself just to see if shell get so horny shell start something. She will not touch or start anything with me sexually. I give her flowers, I make dinner almost every night (I love to cook) we spoon in bead, we kiss, we call each other at work and talk.
What the hell is going on? Please help
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