Intimate with a chubby guy? Better or worse??

OK so there is this guy that I am really into. He is sweet, smart, good-looking, nerdy and he makes me laugh. Love it! Right now we are just friends but we seem to be moving to something more... Or at least I hope. The only thing is... He is kind of a big guy. I have no idea his weight but its clear he's more than a few pounds over. Not obese... Just chubby... I am not a skinny girl, but I'm not big either. Anyway... sex and intimacy are important to me so I am thinking... Is sex with a chubby guy harder, logistically? Do any of you guys know if being "more than a few pounds over" means sex isn't as good? A friend of mine who loves chubby guys says that its slightly better because they have something to prove... but I could really use some fresh perspectives.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I am similar to the guy you're interested in. I've always been told I'm attractive, funny, sweet, etc. I am not fat, but I have a little beer belly from college and a rounder face. Sex is not harder because despite my few extra pounds, I work out and am in reasonably good shape. Sure we have something to prove because we compete with those Hollister looking pricks who just want to hump and dump you anyway. Chubby guys are usually more humble, and at least from what I've seen been better boyfriends. I am a very affectionate person and my ex girlfriend said she always loved when I wrapped my arms around her because she felt safe. As far as the sex- there were never any complaints, and I have stamina like Michael Phelps. Hope I helped :)

    • Definitely. =) Thanks... frankly I have learned that its the sweet guys you want to be with... at whatever size.

    • Tell my pseudo popular and hot ex girlfriend that.

  • Unless he's obese, everything should work just the same. If he's *unfit*--not active, doesn't exercise--then you're sacrificing strength, endurance, and flexibility. But you're hot for this guy; while dating, guide him gently to a gym.

Most Helpful Girl

  • So he is a bit overweight? It doesn't necessarily spell trouble, but Dr. Oz, the guy Oprah made famous, says that for every 30 pounds a guy loses, he gains an extra inch where it counts. I dated a guy who weighed over 300 pounds and stood 6'3'. He had a smaller than average package. That was disappointing. However, once he got in the motion, it worked ok. I was not a fan of the overall experience, but he was the nicest man I had ever met. Not the one I'd chose for a lifetime, but he was very sweet.

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  • Don't be chubby chasin'...actually everyone needs a little bit of lovin'

    • I like him for him. Chubby or not... I don't care... all the important stuff is there... I just want to know if I would be setting myself up for future frustration... =)

    • Yes you are. Cause if you come across a guy who is just like him but in great shape. You're gonna be thinking dayum I could have got that.