How do most men really feel about large areolae?

I have been extremely self conscious of my breasts for years. I was an early bloomer, and my cup size is now a 36 D (maybe DD, I need to get fitted professionally.) My areolas are very large and all I see in p*rn is small ones. It also seems like when big areolas are spoken about, it's in a negative light. I hear a lot of girls complaining about their areolae being large, saying they are the size of a silver dollar (which is very small compared to mine) or the bottom of a soda can (also small compared to mine.) My areolas cover most of the front of my breasts. I'd say they are about 3 inches across. It makes me very self conscious and although my boyfriend says he likes my breasts, I just can't accept that because I feel like they must be unattractive. He recently quit watching p*rn after having been watching it regularly since the age of 11, so I know the beauty standards from p*rn have influenced him and I feel like he might be lying about liking them to make me feel better. But let me stop rambling. How do you all really feel about big areolas? Try not to be too harsh in your answers, please.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • They are fine please stop worryingly they are not unattractive. For many they will be a big turn on.
    You are still very young and concerned about body image con confidence most women are to some degree or another. Pork is not a good example it's not real and young guys get a very warped idea about wooden. We all by clothes but don't look like fashion models.
    For many guys big breasts and nipples or areolae are a huge turn on very desirable. I don't think I have ever heard of a guy being turned off by it.
    It's strange because in fact it strikes me that most women have an idea of how they want to look and it's pretty simular to each other but guys like thing just a little different. So I think you should consider your self lucky.
    Be happy and enjoy your body.

  • Believe your boyfriend. He is with you because he loves you... I like girls but I can't make sense of my preferences. I like girls with any size breasts, any size or length of areolae or nipple... it varies, but the girl I'm with is the one I love

Most Helpful Girl

  • I have only ever heard of men seeing this as a good thing. Breasts are not every man's thing, but if they are with you and care about you, shape and size of any part of your breasts should be no problem. p*rn is so unrealistic. Never set a standard for yourself based on that.

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  • I can't imagine that bothering any guy. We're men and we love boobs, all shapes and sizes :)

  • I want to lick and suck them then cover them with hot cum

  • Doesn't matter to me. I just love tits. All shapes, sizes and colors. Listen to your guy. Dudes don't pay attention to shit like that.

  • Big areolas are very attractive. Some porn shows small breasts that have been artificially inflated by silicon implants, so the areola size is not fitting to the size of the breast. Don't let porn give you your beauty standards. Natural is best

  • I don't think men really care about the size of areolae

  • I spend my day learning and implementing more about sales and marketing. My SO's areola aren't much of a concern. I don't know how to adequately express how little I care.