I have just lost my virginity, why do I feel so weird? Please help?

[Anonymous]

I lost in within the last hour and I feel really weird, my head is spinning, im bleeding a lot and my belly feels weird :(

[summiter]

It was a big event for you. Was he gentle? Did you use a condom?

Some bleeding is normal... I'm a med student not an ob/gyn or a doc yet but make sure you are hydrated, use a sanitary napkin and some gentle pressure on your vagina. Some girls have found that a cold pack or a warm pack helped. Take a tylenol for any discomfort.

Look your body is/was getting use to a penis thrusting inside you for the first time. If/when there is a next time (wait several days) have him slow down, use a lot of foreplay, use some lube if needed. Don't let the guy just jackhammer away. There iis a difference between hard core fucking and making love.

Are you doing any better? Your thoughts?

[Asker]

Thank you! This was very helpful! There was no trusting last night, it was to sore! Ah im grand now, the legs are a bit sore but apart from that I can't complain!

[summiter]

Good for you. Take it way slow next time. You deserve a great orgasm from him. Teach him to use his fingers and/or tongue. Was he a virgin also? Guys need some feedback, so let him know what you like! Hang in there!

[Asker]

nah he isn't a virgin, he didn't know I was one either, I dont plan on telling him either!

[summiter]

He did not know? Did he not feel your hymen when he entered you? Any blood?

[Misterjay02]

Well your bleeding because you most likely tore your hymen. Your stomach may feel weird because your vagina is sore, and your feeling it inside you. Even as a guy, after I lost my virginity I felt a little weird too. Perfectly normal. For now, wear a pad or something to control the bleeding, lay on your bed and take a nap for a bit

[Anonymous]

It's normal. Bleeding is normal since your hymen was torn, and your stomach feels weird because you're not used to having something press up inside you like that. I remember when I lost mine, it felt like my stomach had been churned up like cement in a cement mixer lol. Your head might feel weird because you're worrying. Don't worry! Your body is adjusting.

[JinxThePrettyKitty]

Your overwhelming youself, calm down first. Then, you're gonna have a sore lower stomach from tearing your hymen, it's not your stomach but below that. And you're going to bleed for awhile from the roughness that's gone on. Don't worry, relax, make sure you drink LOTS of water after sex and have somthing small to eat, you'll be just fine :)

[Stacyzee]

ur ok.
your hymen is broken, you're supposed to feel that way

[TadCurious]

Instead of looking at it as having lost something (the mythical "Virginity"), why not congratulate yourself on your sexual debut? Assuming, of course, that you were responsible about practicing safe sex.

[Asker]

We were safe, and I really dont mind that I have lost it, it was never a big deal for me. I just can't understand why I am feeling like this :(

[wiedieaskimwalde]

You just lost it, and now are seeking advice from strangers on the internet and not your partner? Real classy...

[tronlegacy]

Just take a shower and sleep, that's all normal

[Anonymous]

You popped your cherry!!! congrats that feeling will go away soon enough good luck