Why does he call me a good girl?

[ApoRiA]

Sometimes when I'm giving him a blow job he would relax, moan and say "Good girl. " Not that I'm offended by him, but the first time I was startled. I didn't say anything though. I just want to know what kind of guy he is or might be? How does he perceive me as his girlfriend? (To call me a good girl when I'm giving him a blow job. ) And sometimes he would also say "C'mon" to me when we're getting ready to go out etc. Guys help & thanks! Girls welcome too.

[Genesis5]

There are certain times that you shouldn't really take what a guy says to heart, as he isn't really in control of what he is saying or even thinking. Such as:

- When he is receiving a blow job.

- Up to 1 hour after telling him that you are pregnant.

- For at least a week after his team loses the superbowl/world series.

- For the rest of the day after something has happened to his car.

There are others, but this is a pretty good list.

Seriously though, I wouldn't really put too much weight into what he says. If for some reason it bothers you then just talk to him about it, and let him know how you feel.

Best wishes.

[johnsmith2116]

He sounds like he might be a little bit of a controller. If it doesn't get worse, then maybe things will be okay. But if it does get worse, then you need to think about whether or not you are going to stay with him, because you might not want to be with him if it gets worse.

[kimberlyinspired]

Next time say "woof, woof"

Well, ask him not to say that, that you feel like a dog or a child. He will back off, but if he doesn't, say maybe, " Good boy" when he goes down on you. Ask him how much he appreciates you. Tell him what's bothering you.

I would say, "If you say that one more time, I'm bringing my canines down on your bone"

Ha! Ha! Right On!

[ajbrown8]

Haha!

[CCgirl72]

Yea, you really shouldn't take it to heart, he is probably saying it as in your doing a good job in giving head. When guys receive oral sex and it's really good. They kind of don't think and things just come out of their mouths. But it's a cue to you that your doing a good job

[Anonymous]

Maybe on some level he doesn't respect you as much as he should. Or he talks to everyone like that, maybe that's how he was raised. But it's pretty condescending and if he does it on a casual and consistent basis, that says something about how he is as a person.

[lizaveta]

First, what's so unusual about a guy saying "C'mon" when you're just about to GO somewhere? It means "come on", I don't get what could be so 'strange' about that to you.

The 'good girl' thing is him just acknowledging that you're doing a good job. I love it when my boyfriend says it to me - almost like from a master to a pet. ;)