Does fisting hurt?(girls only!)

My girlfriend told me that fisting is extremely painful and I was wondering why,i've seen some porn with fisting in it and the people in it looked like they were having fun and so I was wondering why girls hate fisting.
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  • I dated a girl for about 4 years. I'm average size and I noticed she was a bit of a size queen after a while being with her. So after about 6 months when it started to get boring I asked her about her fantasies she said number 1 on the list was to be gangbanged.. I wasn't really down for her to do that so I had her pick out a toy.. As I figured it was huge. After a month or so of using that she actually brought up the idea of fisting. It took about a month of trying every day to get it the whole way in. I found it to be a huge turn on for some reason.. At first she would take a break from it for a few days at a time because it was painful. But after I'd say 5 or 6 months it was an every day thing. And yes it does eventually make her loose and after a while I could tell just regular sex really wasn't doing anything for her but I didn't mind the fisting turned me on enough that I really didn't care.

    • I can see you won her heart if win her mind you win her body. I would think stroking her Pearl would get her a little more engorged

    • How does it feel fucking her loose pussy? Does it feel sloppy and wet?

    • @stratford feels pretty good actually, don't knock it till ya try it, this whole tightness thing is ok but I enjoyed it much more after the fisting to be honest. I think most people are just self conscious

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  • you'd look like your having fun too if you were getting paid lots of money, tooo.

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  • Fisting can be painful if you aren't ready for it. But if you take it slow until you have stretched a bit you will be fine. If you do that it can be extremely fun!! The feeling of being completely filled up is amazing!!! I have gone from being fisted to sex with a little weenier and very much enjoyed that, and he did as well!!

    I guess we should tell all the athletes of the world to stop stretching because it will ruin their muscles and they will never be the same again!!

    Fisting doesn't destroy a vagina, a fist is smaller than a babies head and after birth a vagina will go back to its original size.

    • I fisted 4 girls. Each time it was a surprise. It felt amazing to have my hand so compressed. They all were amazing. On the other hand, I also had sex with some women were even one finger felt uncomfortable for them. So I guess it really is up to you to stop when it hurts and to let go when it's good.

    • Did you like the feeling of a small dick inside you after being fisted?

  • Well I imagine it would feel like taking a pencil, turning it over to use the eraser head and then sticking it up your urethra and pulling it in and out. Plus,if you are fisting you are punching the woman's cervix which would probably send a sicken pain into her. You could probably achieve a similar feeling by having the girl who is sticking the pencil in your penis also punch you in the balls a few times.

    People who typically like fisting enjoy pain in sex.

  • Are you for real? Would you like it if someone shoved a fist up you ass? Are you asking because you want to try it and wonder how much pain you'll be causing or are you asking because you have zero else going on in you life and can't think of anything more meaningful to do?

    • I don't know why people are being so hostile. I am a woman, who enjoys it. It's really intimate and harmless when done correctly. That being said, it's important that both partners want to do it obviously. It doesn't stretch you out permanently or anything. Directly after, it is more loose, and I'm sure repeated fisting each day is not exactly great for the body, but doing it every so often doesn't make the vagina loose. It CAN BE really pleasurable. I have orgasmed from it, personally. It's just a matter of going slow (an hour or so of foreplay/intercourse prior to trying) and communicating what feels good and what doesn't. Haha it's not like the person just jams their hand up there!

    • @Brynna You My kind of women! Can you handle a large hand?

    • My girlfriend wanted to do it and I let her. It took some time, but she finally did. I love it and it’s addictive.

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  • Ugh. The reason why pornstars can do stuff like that is because its part of their job, and their anuses and vaginas are probably huge from getting pounded all the time by lots of guys. Ewwww...I need to go have a shower now. =/

  • first of all, porn stars act.

    second, the fist in no way resembles a penis, so why on earth would you expect it to feel good for a girl? lol a row of four knuckles being jammed up there? uh.. no thanks.

  • ya.. would you like a fist shoved up your a** because that would just about be the equivalent for us girls..

    • Yes and my girlfriend wanted to and I do..

  • I've never been a gapping hole so I wouldn't know how that feels.

  • My husband fisted me for the first time a few weeks ago and it was intense, but in a good way. It was a little painful, but that turns me on. Feeling his hand and arm moving inside of me was incredible and I squirted when I orgasmed which is always mind blowing.

  • People do that? What on earth would make people even think to try doing that? God it hurts just thinking about it.

  • Yes. Sex hurts too but its finding a balance where the pain and the pleasure crossover and make it fun. Its all about thresholds and everyone is different.

    As with many kinky fetish stuff... Lube is your friend. :)

  • You just have to take it very slowly. I can use my own hand but my SO's is too much.

    • Hot, message me

  • I would love fisting a woman you have take her up gradually if she not relaxed and lubed might not be good

  • Try shoving a fist up your A*S*S* and see if it hurts ! !

  • How far does the guy/girl's hand go up? Is their fist/hand completely inside the girls vagina?

    • I think, can you have a look at my most recent question would be most appreciated.

  • That sounds painful cause I'm a virgin...it hurts for me to put a tampon in:/ that's weird

  • well it hurts for me to use to fingers when masturbating lets leave it there

  • my girl friend asks me to fist her. she never was fisted so we kept at it over time. now i can fist fuck her and she always asks me. use lots of lube. my girl loves it

  • have you seen the butt holes of some of those porn girls after a fisting, they look like their whole body is going to fall out through the stretched deformed hole.

  • It takes awhile to stretch your sphincter muscle. It will never happen first try.. Never ! You have to start with small dildos, butt plugs , cucumber etc.
    Then bigger and bigger. Letting her stick fingers in you and learning how to relax is a must. She needs to play with you asshole a lot. Then she can get her hand inside of you . It’s addictive

  • I am sure fisting anybody hurts.

  • my friend if you use lube and are massively turned on or practice with your finger or a nice dildo you will have the most mind blowing experience that will make you find nirvana and the most orgasms your body will give you. Trust me it is sex like no other way can even match it

  • My girlfriend is a conservative. She does not even like Anal. However. She loves the idea of entire fist inside her. She has also told me how she fantasizes that I leave my fist in there after sex and she falls asleep like that.

  • We got close, but not yet.

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