Cuddling, and then sex. And then cuddling. :) Because (as a guy) post-sex is when my emotions are open the most, so even though I'm dog tired, cuddling can be very warm then. I love cuddling.
But the question itself is off-target; if sex is optional, then you don't have a "relationship" relationship, you just have a rather touchy-feely friendship. That can be nice, but it's not a relationship.
If I had to choose, I'd choose sex. Simply put, guys require sex to be happy, period. Any guy who says different is either shading the truth to look better in a girl's eye, or has kung fu skills well beyond my own. I certainly couldn't do it. If I really loved the girl, I could go maaaybe six months at the outside before I went completely batsh*t. (I would already have gone apesh*t long before then.)
But _just_ sex without the possibility of cuddly bookends will become kind of blah before too long, so yuck. Fast track to a brief relationship, in my book.
So I can't answer either A or B. Kind of like "Would you choose food, or water?" Errr, I would die in either case...one might let me live a bit longer I guess...
Cuddling for me.
There is spiritual bonding when enaged in perfervid cuddling. Sex too intensifies love, but I just prefer cuddling.
You're a fucking cunt.
I would choose cuddling any day! Sex can only last for so long- cuddling can last forever! :)
Honestly, I feel so safe when a guy is holding me. Wow its like the greatest feeling in the entire world! I just recently started spending the night with my boyfriend in his dorm, and now I absolutely hate sleeping alone! Not only do I feel super loved, but cuddling is not something I could potentially regret! The feeling I get when my boyfriend holds me all night is better than sex. I feel like no harm could ever come to me, and I always sleep better than ever! :)
It really is one of the best feelings in the world.
I'm glad you agree!!! :)
personally I prefer cuddling. sometimes I don't want to get so physical, as opposed to just laying there with his arms around me :)
i love that feeling <3
Depends, if the sex is f***ing amazing, there's no need to cuddle lol
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!cuddling? no way.. I can live without cuddling, can't live without sex.
I have to agree with AudreyMarie. I love sex too much to want to cuddle instead.
Cuddling. Because a guy who will actually cuddle with you will be there through the good and the bad...when I'm sick, upset, or down...not just try to f*** the bad mood out of me, but help me work through it, or at least be there for me.
i might be weird for a guy answering this but cuddling honestly
Is this a real question? Cuddling doesn't make you moan and explode...
I would choose sex, it's the harder one to give up.
if I could only have one, I'd have to say cuddling. :]
Why the actual fuck is everyone choosing cuddling? wtf?
Because they have experimented love. If you only had sex for sex, you cannot understand what that means.
i guess I would pick sex.
the preferred is sex then cuddle but if I couldn't live without one, sex would be much harder to give up
sex. You must be younger than you claim, or you would know this.
You must be young if you have to use the stupid 'Anonymous User' thing. I am born in 1988. You do the math.
I was in college when you were born
Okay great. But that also means I am the age I claim to be.
Sex and then cuddle
I love sex, but I'd have to pick the cuddling if forced to choose.
Why would you pick cuddling? What's so "sexual" about cuddling?
@Bosnamam the fact that is not sexual, actually.
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