Would you be surprised if your FWB's was sleeping around with other people?

Would you be hurt? Do they have the right to sleep around?
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Keep in mind, this is NOT a one night stand. This is a FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS situation.
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  • I'd assume they were unless we'd agreed to otherwise.

    But my impression is a LOT of women think friends with benefits is relationship-lite. Like you just don't have to see each other quite as much or make a 'big deal' out of being a couple. Most guys seem to view friends with benefits as fuckbuddies-plus where you might actually see them in the daytime and when sober.

  • Honestly, if it was a friends with benefits and not a girlfriend, I'd be surprised if they weren't. If you're going to be exclusive to each other, then call yourselves boyfriend/girlfriend.

    • Thank you. Talked to someone earlier and tried to explain this. She just became defensive like some kind of moron. She didn't know what she was getting into when she asked for a FWB's arrangement.

    • Yeah, it's kind of like an open marriage, but without the marriage part. 😊

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well, if you're only fwbs then, you aren't tied down to a relationship, you're still technically single, so do what you please, but be warned, most girls get very jealous.

    • Thank you for the response. I tried explaining this to someone earlier. They don't seem to get it.

    • No problem,

  • its one of the reasons i'm not into a friends with benefits relationship

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  • You shouldn't be in a friends with benefits situation if you aren't actively looking or already sleeping with other people. If you are in a "FwB" and you are exclusive to eachother, guess what, you are lying to yourselves and you are really in a full-blown relationship, even if that is not what you call it.

    • The whole point of friends with benefits is to keep it CASUAL, if you can't handle them sleeping with someone else, you aren't keeping it casual, and therefore it is not a friends with benefits situation, it is some fucked up monogamous relationship where both people are being immature, and irrational.

  • hahaa. no. but I would stop fucking around with her.

  • Well if I was to be in a friends with benefits situation I'd want it to be exclusive. I think it's gross of a girl I'm sleeping with to also be sleeping with other people. Also I'd worry about her catching an stds and bringing it back to me.

    So I'd specify in the beginning that I wanted it to be exclusive and if she goes against that I'd consider it cheating even if we weren't "in love". it's still going against the agreement.

  • It would not surprise me. It would frustrate me but nothing is exclusive.

    • Thanks for the answer.

  • Why the hell would I be hurt? We aren't in a relationship. It's fine.

  • If your friend with benifits you are still single and 8f you dont wanna be just a friend with benifits get exclus8ve and see where it goes