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Why do guys always talk about their penis size here?

Do we girls ever talk about our vagina size and properties? The penis questions come back every day.
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From the answers until now the conclusion is that boobs are the equivalent of a penis. Now we just have to wait what the male equivalent of the vagina is :D
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Waw, never expected such a big response. I see many guy and girl answers for the MHO. It will be a challenge to pick the best. Pity I cannot add a poll with the best answers. Thank you all for your excellent comments.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I think I get why guys ask it, and why it's annoying to the girls.

    First, guys are watching p*rn and thinking what is making the women howl is their penis size. First or all, that's p*rn . Women don't look like that and are directed to howl with pleasure. Second, guys might see other dicks in locker room showers or urinals and think they're not big enough. Third, and worst of all, girl talk. Women are guilty of talking about wanting a nice big dick, and that as about as big talk as guys who want a woman with big boobs. I think many people like talking big talk without considering if they're telling the truth or trying to show off. A big dick might be nice, but will it give you a fulfilling relationship? Some things are compensated when women meet men. If she finds he's an awesome guy, but he's smaller than she expected, I almost guarantee she isn't going to care. She'll learn to adapt and love it because it's HIS penis.

    Why women are annoyed. Number One: When we see you guys, we notice all the things about you with your clothes on first, because that's usually how people meet. So we love your face, the body and how your clothes fall on you, what you wear, how you talk, and especially what you say. If we hear penis-talk, it kills the daydream. We love to imagine breaking the bad boy or getting in to the mind of the enigmatic guy. Number Two: Worrying about penis size shows insecurity and desperation to be accepted. Turn off. If you have a five inch dick, you should already know that what you'll do with that five inches along with your tongue will blow our minds. Number Three: Those questions here are done to death and I think when you answer one, you've answered them all, so do a search looking for a question similar to yours and stop spamming the site with your own special question about your penis, because they're all the same.

    Hope this helps.
    Penises are great, and what's even better is finding out about the guy who is attached to them.

    • Very, very well stated, and very true.

    • @Ozanne Nice summary on why women are annoyed by it. This is the clearest reason I have ever seen written so far.

    • The choice was not easy, but I organized a poll among friends today and this one came out as MHO.

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  • They're self conscious about their size because of p*rn . The guys in p*rn have larger than average sized penises, the girls in p*rn also fake most of their orgasims, so guys get this idea in their mind that the only way to please a woman sexually is with a "big" penis.

    Women are the same way with their breast size. Having small boobs is considered "unfeminine" in the society of the United States, therefor we are always asking if our boobs are adequate. Women who have large, voluptuous breasts are worshiped by guys because large breasts are a sign or fertility.

    Basically pop culture and social media have warped our socially acceptable "sizes" and now everyone is constantly questioning if they're "big enough". If people stopped worrying about what others think and just focused on being the best they could be, we'd stop seeing so many questions like this.

    • Lol I agree with this. Sometimes after I watch a p*rn I cry because I think of the similarities between p*rn and my life. For example I watched a p*rn once where the girl was cheating on her boyfriend with the guy and I cried after I watched it. Srs.

    • Lol! I'm sorry... there's a reason p*rn is mostly watched by men xD

  • it's only equivalent in the sense that it's something guys are insecure about and something girls are insecure about... As far as boobs vs dick go.

    It does seem ridiculous to be so concerned about something you can't change anyway... Well at least not without a bunch of money.

Most Helpful Guys

  • No, you girls constantly ask about your boob size, or you post a picture and ask "am I cute?" just trolling for attention. We all have our insecurities. You all think that every guy wants a girl with 38DD watermelons and we think that you want a guy with a 9" poker when most of us have 5"-6". We want to know that we have what it takes to turn you on just as much as you want to know if your boobs are good enough to get our attention (I prefer petite girls with 34A or 34B boobs.)

    There are some ways that men and women are very similar and sexual insecurities is one of the areas of similarities. We are all afraid that we are going to take off our clothes, get in bed with a new partner, and hear them laughing at us. So let's continue to help each other and reassure each other and build our confidence because it can be a scary world out there in the bedroom.

    • This is a great summary.

    • I just read the Asker's update and it seems that there is some hostility behind this question. I am a lover, not a fighter so. . . peace out!

  • Because most guys watch p*rn and become insecure that they don't have a 10" ferret in their pants.

    I think they believe that the bigger, the better. But I think they also don't realise sometimes being "too" big can be a worse problem than too small.

    I also think they focus too much about size rather than how to use it. As a girl once posted on here, an avg size penis will penetrate and pleasure even some of the largest sized vaginas, so its simple really, like anything be it personality, music taste, whatever, you just have to find a good match.

    It would help guys if they blamed a woman having a large vagina compared to there small penis!

    • I love large vaginas personally.

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  • The same reason why girls constantly ask or brag about their breast.

  • Not all guys talk about penises. Wouldn't it make more sense if girls where the ones to talk about penises on here? Just putting it out there.

  • There's a bit of a difference there, vaginal size is never talked about and really doens't matter, where as penis size does matter, because let's face it, a penis is the second half of the most important aspect of sex. And different sizes feel differently for the woman, usually a larger penis feeling better than a smaller penis, so it's obvious why guys worry about it. Imagine not being good enough for your partner and being able to do nothing about it. yhe worry comes from if we will be good enough, because most guys have a strong drive to please their partners to the ultimate threshold.

  • Why do you girls ask about boobs size, do we ever talk about testicles size?

  • Because I have a beautiful cock and the world deserves to know!

    *cries because I'm lying*

  • It is usually the younger teenagers and they are just wondering how they stack up to the rest of the population. Most are virgins and are a bit insecure (I was) as to whether they will measure up so to speak.

    I think it is because they are curious. All they have to compare things to is when they jerk off ( yes over 95% of guys jerk off a lot... they just won't admit it) and all they can compare things to is what they see on po*n sites. What do you think?

  • Right, it's just constant questions about boobs from the girls. You don't see all that many questions about our chests.

  • could say the same for us why do we always talk about cheating?

  • I don't its annoying most the time when they ask questions like that.

  • their penis is their prized possession and their pride and joy 😂😂

  • Cause they're self conscious & want affirmation that they're "good enough" lol. or they just like to lie and look cool and say they have a 10 inch penis.
    I sometimes see questions about a woman's vagina but definitely more so men & their dicks.

  • LOl, I never talked about vaginas with girls :P don't know why guys do it

    • We don't talk about with each other obviously. just online with girls

  • just some insecure guys with a little finger..

    • 5 little insecure guys gave this a downvote lol

  • Girls ask about the size of their breasts. It's not exactly an apples-to-apples comparison, but it's close.

  • sounds like they are insecure about the size of their tools

    • Not always ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) Some like to compare, mostly to the average size

  • Is my penis big enough? It's 44 inches

    • @JackKerouac77 Did't know elephants could type :P

  • Boobs aren't equivalent to penises, but the people are more insecure about these bodypart's sizes.

    Well, anatomically, the prostate is is the closest to the female's vagina. There is a small sack inside it, which is thought to be a vestigial vagina. The tissue, which surrounds the testicles, is also called tunica vaginalis for a reason.

  • Alright, Bottom line then, never ask questions or talk about your penis. It annoys women, and these questions have been answered already. Think this sums it up.

  • Because they are very insecure about their guns.

  • Yes girls ask about the size of their anotomy here a lot too almist as much as guys. Lol. But I hear ya tho.
    Enough!

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