plain and simple: I am extremely self conscious about my small breasts. I'm a 32B, though I swear I feel smaller. and I'm even self conscious about my body being too small. like OK, I'm not gonna lie, I want to stay thin and even had an eating disorder for a number of years. so yeah I'm always still very careful about my body and its shape and weight because I prefer to be thin. but there are times when I feel bad because I wish I had something more to offer my guy. like bigger fuller breasts and a more womanly body with curves and such. because whenever he takes my shirt off, I always think, oh man he's gonna be so disappointed.
i wish I was more confident...
any help with anything?
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Honestly you're lucky to be a B, I'm always a 32A. You just need to buy yourself a push up bra/chicken fillets if you want bigger breasts-definitely do NOT get breasts implants because they will look fake and distort your shape and make you look heavier than you are. Make sure you get measured in a store to double check your bra size. Bra sizes can vary from store to store depending on what age group the store is targeting-generally the stores for younger people will have slightly smaller sizes. But I know its about more than just the size of your breasts.
I can really relate to your question because I have problems with food too. I always like my body to be thin because I don't like its natural shape. Still I look at a friend of mine who has a [different shape to mine]natural slim hourglass figure that I would kill for because it is nice and womanly. So its definitely a dilemna. If you want bigger breasts another option is to put on a little bit of weight-even 7lbs when you're very slim does make a difference to your breasts. If you are very thin, then your bust size will naturally decrease. [I like having the control of being thin but sometimes I catch a glimpse of skinny legs/arms and it does hit me then. Sometimes when I'm thin I also feel almost child like and delicate because I'm so small.]
Are you getting help for your eating disorder? Its something you can't deal with on your own. Believe me, I tried but its too hard. It is a constant battle so its good to get support from therapy, nutritionist etc. My weight fluctuates a lot-i starve and then binge. I have no solutions but I just wanted to say I know how hard it can be. Other people don't understand the perfectionism and need for control behind it. I don't think a guy is going to suddenly be disappointed when he sees you have small breasts as long as they suit your petite shape. I mean, if a guy wants to sleep with you then he clearly fancies you so forget about that altogether.
Talk to someone about this and get support hun! Good luck!