What are some sexy things to whisper into a guy's ear?

there aren't much details to this one, its kinda a simple question. what could a girl whisper into a guys ear to turn him on?

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  • I'm probably in the minority of guys here, but I would prefer more...seductive comments rather than the majority of "pornstar" trash talk that many have suggested. Don't get me wrong - I'm not some uptight morality thumper...I just don't get turned on by a lot of dirty talk. A little can be fine in the right setting, but in regards to your question, I would be much MUCH more turned on by something that intrigues me. If you can pull of sexy AND mysterious, you're going to get my brain amped up wondering at the potential possibilities. The reason for this is because it shows that you are intelligent, sexually interested, and creative enough to come up with something other than the usual "wanna feel you pound me".

    Some suggestions:

    1. Hints of things yet to come ("there's a little surprise waiting for you at home.")

    2. Subtle cues about what you're wearing that he can't see ("Perhaps the reason I'm a little chilly is because the new panties I have on don't cover much...") - maybe not the best wording, but I'm trying to write quickly here. :)

    3. Poetic metaphors (any of the lyrics in Feelin Love by Paula Cole on the City of Angels Soundrack). That song is HOT.

    4. Allusions to sexual games (While at someone's house - "I left my underwear hidden in the bathroom...see if you can go find it for me.")

    Obviously, these cover a lot of different scenarios and comfort levels...but I hope they give you some food for thought. And, of course, if you can follow that whisper up with a quick sexy facial expression (raised eyebrow, a wink, etc)...well, who wouldn't be turned on?

    • Oh you are so not alone on this one. I am all for some seduction. Leave me something for my active imagination to feed on. If she can show me some intelligence, and creativity and wants to make the whole thing an experience I love having something to look forward throughout the day. It really takes reality to an active fantasy level.