How do I stimulate my girlfriend by playing with her brests?

My girlfriend believes in no sex before marriage which is fine with me. She doesn't, however, have a problem with me playing with her breasts when we make out. The last time I was squeezing.. etc. and a couple times she would inhale sharply, arch her back and squeeze my arm tightly. I was wondering what is the best way to sexually arouse her by playing with her breasts.
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  • As a general rule, the way to please a woman sexually is to treat her like a cat.

    If you approach a cat too directly, it'll freak -- even if you've owned a cat for 10 years. it'll scratch you and bolt under the bed for the rest of the day.

    Instead, you hang your hand off the edge of the sofa while you're watching TV. you wiggle your fingers. the cat will let you pet it for 10 seconds, then it walks away. a few minutes later, it lets you pet it for 30 seconds, then it walks away. the cat will take a while to get in your lap and let you rub its belly. but once the cat is in your lap, IT WILL NOT WANT TO LEAVE FOR THE REST OF THE DAY!

    my point is that you've got to be indirect. you've kinda got to spark her interest by wiggling your fingers (so to speak). but you let her come to you as much as you go to her. gently feel her breast, then run your fingers up and down her arm and shoulderblade. then leave it alone and simply kiss. a few minutes later, return to the breast for a while, then trail your fingers along her neck. then leave it alone and simply kiss her.

    eventually, she'll be in your lap and she will not want to leave for the rest of the day. so to speak...

    • Best analogy I've heard in a long time, made me laugh haha

  • Well of course squeezing and putting some force on them as you move them around. Girls have those things jam packed tight so having something done with em feels nice. Try using your tongue to do circles around the nipple. Flick the nipple with the tongue too. (Of course, most sensitive spot) Has worked for me before

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  • Different women have different preferences, but the number one rule is don't be too rough--especially at first, otherwise her nipples will become numb. As she becomes more aroused, you can be a little rougher.

    There are so many things you can do. You can roll her nipples between your index finger and thumb, you can stroke one finger back and forth over the nipple, you can tug them gently (both by keeping your finger and thumb in place or by allowing your finger and thumb to slip off), or you can tease her by ignoring the nipple and focusing on the rest of the breast. You can knead her breasts.

    A lot of women like having their nipples pinched/held gently while they are cumming.

    • You didn't say if she'll let you use your tongue. If yes, use your tongue to do the things I already described, plus flick it fast over a nipple for a long time. You can also wet your fingers before using them.

    • Well, the only times we've done it we weren't completely alone. just down stairs. so her shirt's never come completely off so the tongue is out of the question for now

  • put your hand down her shirt and rib her nipples. (:

    • Good god. Lol

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