Why can't my husband stay hard?

We are trying for a baby, but just recently, and it doesn't happen every time, my husband can't seem to remain hard. It starts off OK, then...well nothing. We are both getting a little stressed with it. Any ideas why? Neither of us feel under pressure really as we have only just started trying... We always have lots of fun and foreplay, along with massage etc, I always make our bedroom a romantic place with candles, music etc and we are both always in the mood...We would like a baby more than anything, but its going to be impossible if this keeps happening. I'm 35, my hubby is 37. Any advice?

Most Helpful Guy

  • Is he overweight and out of shape? Is he diabetic? He could have erectile dysfunction and doesn't know it.