how to tell the good guys from the ones who just want in your pants?
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The good ones take a real interest in you, in your opinions, your activities, your friends and family, etc. They are not so focused just on the physical but relate to you all over as a real person, not some means to get their sexual needs met. Try going out with them for a while, several weeks, with no sexual stuff, and see what happens - are they still there for you or did they realize they're not going to get the quick sexual thrill they were only seeking?0