How do I get rid of the gag reflex?

[Anonymous]

I have a bad gag reflex and every time I give my friend head my eyes water really bad and I feel like I'm gonna throw up. He does it so good and goes really far and it makes me feel bad that I can't do the same to him so I have been letting him do me anal so he can cum. I would like to give head and not gag and finish him that way but its hard. I got some of this stuff called great head that is supposed to help but it really doesn't. Anyone have any tips or ideas?

[AtomizerJr]

the gag reflex has a good purpose: to protect us from choking.

so when you ignore that reflex, you're ignoring an important message from your body. those watering eyes, that urge to vomit, those are all natural reflexes. they're all messages from your body that something is wrong. your question is no different from asking why it hurts after pounding a nail into your kneecap, and why it's now difficult walk...

so my suggestion is that you stop ignoring your reflexes. there are other ways to improve your sex life.

[Feelinfrisky]

If your generic pic is correct, then you are a gay guy. If so, then probably you should have said. You should not go to a conventional site, and talk casually about homosexuality, as it sends a wrong message to teens still developing feelings and idea's. Search internet for gay sites and get better advice. Don't be casual here about your homosexuality, it's not good form. I, by the way, AM NOT homophobic!

[Havanna90]

What "wrong message" does this send exactly?

[Asker]

You have no right to say that at all and I have every right to talk about my sexuality on here because as you see this is under the sexuality questions. It doesn't matter how I approach the question either. If you don't want to read my question then move on to the next one just like everyone else does. thank you

[Dantheman6500]

Sure sounds like it. Homo- Same (sex) Phobic- afraid of You're afraid of the same sex people having their own thoughts and ideas

[AtomizerJr]

If you're 61 years old, you ought to understand that the attitudes towards homosexuality have changed quite a bit in the last few decades. I don't care that this person is gay. But I am worried that he's ignoring his reflexes...

[godoggo]

You are homophobic and in denial, frisky. Get better advice from a gay site? A BJ is a BJ, dude. Girls give them the same way guys do. Wrong message to teens? Are you one of those dinsoaurs who thinks homosexuality is a choice? Or are you afraid that teens will learn to be (gasp) ...tolerant? Too late, gramps. Most of them already are.

[bbgurl33]

It takes practice and over time you get better at it. Try going down and taking more of him a little more each time. Also try sticking your tongue out it helps open your throat. Also try asking him for pointers. If he is so good he might be able to help and he will probably be flattered that you are asking and think he is great. Good luck!

[justyouraverage]

I have the same problem. Try licking your hand and using it on the bottom of the shaft and only taking the top of him. then move your mouth and hand up and down together. Works for me! Also get him to the point by other methods(kissing, stroking, licking etc.) so as to minimize the amount of time you have him in your mouth.

[erbleburrow]

To suppress your gag reflex, try the following:

With your non-dominant hand (i. e. if you're right-handed, use you left hand; if you're left-handed, use your right hand) make a fist and squeeze it, with light pressure. You don't want to just "hold" it in a fist, and you don't want to squeeze tightly - use pressure somewhere in-between. Continue to squeeze using the same amount of pressure throughout the activity that requires you to suppress your gag reflex, for example, when brushing the very back of your tongue with your toothbrush.