How Do Porn Stars Look So Perfect Down There?

[Anonymous]

I've never really thought about it until my boyfriend mentioned it to me,but porn stars are perfect below the waist.We were watching porn together and he brought up how I look below the waist compared to how some of the girls look and he says I don't look normal.I've of course been to a gynecologist and talked to her about it and she examined me and told me nothing was wrong with me.Like on me,my labia majora is "fatter" says my boyfriend and the girls in the videos are thin and small.My clit is a little bigger from what I've seen in videos but theirs is small.I wax and am completely bare so that's no issue for me.And my boyfriend has told me of al of the girls he's been with and the girls in the videos,i'm the most unattractive below the waist(I know sounds mean,but really isn't I guess,it's just an opinion).And uhh,the frontal area(called mons pubis) on me sticks out a little and is fat to me.Now that I think about it,i do sort of agree with my boyfriend about how I look below the wasit and I'm wondering,what I can do to look better?How do porn stars look so good?

[MickeyMickey506]

I will give you a few steps to have the "perfect" nether region.

1)Break Up with your boyfriend.You only started feeling this way when he brought it up and began putting his insecurities on you.Those are his issues.He obviously has never slept with more than one girl,that being you,i can almost guarantee that.If he has a porn addiction and can not realize the difference between airbrushing,and hours of preparation and reality,that is his issue.

2)Educate yourself on female anatomy.Vaginas,labias,clits,and everything else on peoples body's come in different shapes,sizes,colors and textures.

3)Get some self esteem,confidence and self respect.It will allow you to stop allowing a guy to disrespect you and saying things a guy should never say to a female.Hey in my opinion,if a girl is going to give her body to a guy or partner,that person should respect her a partner,and a human being.

I can guarantee 100% that you aren't unattractive below the waist

[Professor_Zoom]

Nothing is wrong with you. You boyfriend is living in a dream and needs to stop watching so much porn and live in the real world. You know, the one where women's vaginas vary from woman to woman. I've been with woman that have little itsy bitsy clits, and some with huge clits that almost looked like a mini penis. Porn films... that's all Hollywood. Why do you think all guys in porn have huge penises? Because that is who the film makers choose. Same with women. They get the ones that are the most appealing. They're not perfect down below. You are just being shown what sells. Go do some research on female anatomy and you'll see that there is nothing wrong with you.

[Anonymous]

uhh..you KNOW it sounds mean, but it isn't? I mean good job for not getting offended..but if my boyfriend was to say anything like that to me, I'd slap him. Honestly, if he doesn't like the way you look down there then he shouldn't have the privilege of having sex with you. I know I'm not perfect down there, but my boyfriend makes me feel like I'm the sexiest woman alive when we have sex. another thing, every girl is different. the reason all girls on porn look that way is because they are sought after by the industry, this is their "ideal" look. and MOST of the time, guys get horny enough to look past any "flaws" that you see in yourself. so idk..rethink that man of yours.

[Chiquitax]

I think ur boyfriend is just being a complete As*hole... I mean he is suppose to make you feel comfortable & not bad. Of course there is nothing wrong about being honest. Some girls are very sensitive about stuff like that I think he could have just kept that to himself.. I'd be p*ssed if my boyfriend would have said anything like that to me I wouldn't feel good sleeping with him again.

[ReneeL1984xox]

Everybody has different vaginas.

Most porn stars have surgery on their labia so it is shorter.

It really angers me how us normal women have to live up to porn star expectations: nice boobs, perfect vaginas, hairless.

It's just going against nature!

[SavannahBanana]

If your doctor says your fine then you have nothing to worry about. Just because yours doesn't look like a porn stars doesn't mean its unattractive. Everyone's is different, and everybody is their worse critic. I wouldn't worry about it, I bet its fine :)

[Asker]

Well my boyfriend thinks it's unattractive,so it isn't all in my head

[John-Bee]

NO it's all in your boyfriends head. Like everyone said here he's an a$$.

[The_Thinker]

I Wouldn't change anything about yourself. You're normal and probably look very attractive down there. You should bring up that your boyfriend's penis isn't as big as the one's you've seen and see if that ends this nonsense about you not being 'perfect.'

[AtomizerJr]

your boyfriend's kind of a d!ck...

the reason women in porn have a certain look is the same reason that professional basketball players are usually very tall: those professions tend to select people with certain physical traits.

the main difference between basketball and porn, however, is that porn leads to way more contention in relationships and to unrealistic expectations. basketball fans accept that Kobe and other guys are simply in a rare class, nobody goes on the neighborhood court and expects to perform like Larry Bird. but porn tends to lead to a lot of issues like you describe: guys who don't understand that _porn is not quite real_, and women with insecurities over things that are perfectly normal.

if your boyfriend brings up this stuff again, I advise you to tell him to pull his head out if he doesn't want you to dump his shallow ass.

[Dantheman6500]

Please, please, please stop going down this road!

Guys get this crazy image from porn that they are probably never going to see in real life. If you're waxing and taking care of yourself (more than most girls can say) then your boyfriend should be HAPPY with it.

I don't even like the full on wax. Just a good close trim.

IMO he sounds like an asshole for comparing you and making you feel less worthy...

My 2 cents

[paulwannacracker]

Dump the chump. Most guys would just be happy that you have a vagina and that you'd have sex with them.

[Xenophobia]

there's this tool they use called an airbrush...if I were you I wouldn't worry about what porn stars look like. You should be yourself and not worry about looking perfect. Porn stars have fake boobs, fake lips, botox, and other plastic surgery done. Your boyfriend should wake up out of his dream land...

[BertMacklinFBI]

this is so old you probably already have it solved.

[Partyboy69]

porn starts look so good down there because they have auditions, and if they don't look good down there, they do not make the cut :]

[saara]

Are u out of your mind? really? plzzz break up with this guy... u deserve better!

[Anonymous]

Most p*rn stars have surgery on their labia because the industry wants to sell fantasy perfection. And this whole Large labia thing... A LOT of women have this insecurity. You are not the only one! And I am personally conscious of my own labia because its larger than usual but I asked many guys and they said that they don't really care, they are more in for the sex.

None of my male friends had said that they mind large labia's. So sorry but I think you should break up with your boyfriend if he asks for surgery again... It's definitely YOUR choice if you want to have surgery. He really should just deal with it.

[Anonymous]

your boy friends an ass. if he's going to complain about what he gets then he should f*** off. like I bet his d*** isn't perfect.

[Anonymous]

i think it's a bit insensitive of your boyfriend to just come out and say you're the most unattractive girl down there that he's been with, but there's nothing you can really about it; you just are the way you are. there are surgeries for the labia and such but they're thousands and thousands of dollars. porn stars are paid to try and look as "perfect" as they can while having sex on camera. there's nothing wrong with your downstairs, so don't bother comparing yourself with them.

[Asker]

Surgery wouldn't bother me though.i rather not be unattractive down there

[Cartiphilus]

Yes, I agree with the part about porn star girls are paid to look perfect down there while on camera. They f*** for a living so their bodies must look perfect for the camera. They surely spend a good deal of time creating and maintaining that perfect look. On the male side it's unrealistic to see a scrotum so perfectly without hair. There are no hair removing creams available, to my knowledge, that would so perfectly remove that hair. So how did he do it? Razor shaving hurts too much.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't do a surgery =\

[Asker]

Surgery isn't that big of a deal though

[Opinion Owner]

Is this something you really want? because I can pretty much guarantee your boyfriend doesn't care as much as you probably think he does..you're his girlfriend for a reason and I don't think your so called "unattractive" vagina is a dealbreaker

[Asker]

Well,he brought up the whole surgery thing and brings it up every time we have sex

[Opinion Owner]

I would really suggest that you do not go through with a surgery, but if you really are contemplating it, make sure it's something YOU want. if you get it done for your boyfriend and for some reason you break up, you'll have a constant reminder down below of him and I don't think you'd want that