Guys,Is a girl having a "bulge" down there unattractive or a turn off?

[Anonymous]

So,I'm 18,and the only person I've ever had sex with or let see me naked is my boyfriend.So,when I ask this,I'm not talking about a girl having a penis bulge lol,but in my nether region,the mons pubis area bulges out a bit and my labia majora is thick.He always comments on the area on how "fat" I quote him on that word,it is.He's even told me I look bad in certain lingerie because of it.I asked my best guy friend about it and he said my boyfriend is an a-hole and that it's a turn on.I mean,i've noticed I don't look like the girls in porn,but it's never bothered me until he mentioned it and he's even told me I should get a reduction down there. So to other guys,is it unattractive? Do you think maybe the surgery would be good enough?It's pretty pricey,but I guess it would be worth it right?

[Writergirl3212]

If he can't accept you for the way you are, dump him. He doesn't deserve you. No guy is EVER worth mutilating yourself with unnecessary surgery. Girls in pornos are IN PORNOS! If he wants to screw around with girls who are unrealistic or slutty, let him. You deserve a guy that finds you attractive the way you are, not a guy that finds you attractive IF you change your body. Dump the asshole. You deserve better.

[kcm_05]

The female bulge is because of the shape of your pelvis. if you have a bigger one its allowing you more space later on for things more important than this a--hole. :) you deserve better. I have a bulge too I was made fun of for it for a long time but honestly, there are guys out there that love them. meet one of those. hold onto him and looooOOOooove him lol ;)

[Anonymous]

your boyfriend is entitled to his opinion but honestly I think it's crazy that someone would actually tell their girlfriend to get a surgery to fix something that doesn't need fixing o_0

i've never been with a girl with a "bulge" but I googled it to see a picture, not a turn off to me whatsoever

[Dman46912]

Personally I love it and know a lot of other guys that do as well wish I could see not asking though I'm not trying to be rude or inappropriate dont let his opinion stop u from looking good

[setcheck67]

Well I have to admit if I saw a bulge I would be thinking tranny. I wouldn't completely think it though unless you had an adams apple.

[Asker]

I just said not that big of bulge.Sheesh

[kcm_05]

Lol apparently he has a pretty small "bulge" lol

[setcheck67]

Haha everyone is acting like I'm a bad guy for being honest. Pathetic.

[Asker]

If you read what I put,you'd know I said it doesn't resemble a penis.If you had an common sense you'd know this question isn't calling for any "humor" If you were mature,you wouldn't say such things

[setcheck67]

That wasn't humor I was being completely serious and honest. I don't know what your bulge looks like so take some mydol and get over it. You know whether or not your beautiful and don't need some man to tell you so. I've met a tranny with a VERY small bulge and had no idea HE was one until he told me. If you ask questions and expect truthful answers that aren't just kiss ass statements maybe you should learn to mature first no?

[Asker]

Mature more.Yea said the answerer bringing up a tranny

[setcheck67]

I truly didn't want to be offensive. I'm sorry for offending you. However if you ask questions expect criticism that is a way of life.

[l-hedoniste]

Some guys like it, most don't care. It's not worth getting cut over, IMO.

[GIntrovert]

Most girls have a slight "bulge", especially when they are horny. Your boyfriend has been watching too much porn.

[joshnumber21]

Megan Fox has a bulge if you look at her lingerie pics. I don't know how it could be considered a bad thing!

[Miristheiss]

I don't think I'd care at all. Operation? Please, don't get yourself cut over something insignificant like this.

[Marrryyyyy]

im confused..what do you mean by a bulge?

[krissadd]

Haha I don't get why this is down arrowed!

[Marrryyyyy]

Same here..im just confused as to what the girl means. I'd help if I knew what she was talking about

[gym4ever]

do you mean pussy mound or?

[ST21391]

Its a mega turn on for me!! Hottest thing ever on a woman!

[Anonymous]

It is a major turnoff to a majority of guys.It's not feminine.I prefer my girl to actually look like a girl

[anonymous4]

How exactly does a mons pubis NOT look like a girl?

[dougpaterson]

@anonymous4

[dougpaterson]

It just means your son (when you have one) will be well endowed, we all start out with the same parts

[cchacon]

Yep big turn off for me as well. Something easily notisable when first getting intimate with a girl, so you can decide early enough whether you like what she’s got or not.. so to me it’s just las important as my hair color preference, eyes, height etc. Though I don’t hink it’s actually the girl’s problem, when a girl doesn’t meet my criteria, it’s up to me to be with the one that alters my choises, instead of bringing down someone who isn’t responsible for my likes/dislikes.

[Anonymous]

your best guy friend is right, your boyfriend is a douche

my girl has that as well and it's fcking hot as hell...it's like so juicy and inviting. I love just diving right in and giving her oral heh

[Anonymous]

You can definitely tell what a girl has in panties. Thick lips are hot. I love thick and long. I am assuming too if I see a girl with a mound, that she has a lot of pubes, and that's fine too. Just be confident.