Would a guy have sex with a fat girl?

[sarafina0]

Ok, so am really curious. Would a guy have sex with a fat girl? Am not saying that it's a bad thing or anything but just because guys like coke bottle shape girls. Is there something wrong with a girl being fat, I mean she is a human being, right? Maybe this is why fat girls are really insecure with their bodies. All am saying is can you make a fat girl really sexy in bed? Can you make her feel like you would to any skinny girls? What part of the body do you like in a fat girl (men only question)? Would a guy see a fat girl naked, literally, especially in bright light? Basically, can you love a fat girl just like you would with a skinny girl? And can you have sex with her and make her feel good in bed just like you would with a skinny woman? Now,girls is it ok to have sex with man even if your fat. What are you thoughts on that. Even if he says he loves you for who you are. I mean I just want to know.

[bond00713]

I love a healthy girl. It doesn't matter. She could be 5' 5" 180 lbs or 5' 10" 230lbs. It's all good to me. And yes I've had sex with girls in between those weights. I'm 6' 0" 190 so I guess I'm not the biggest dude but I don't give a sh*t. I like something big. Big ass, big boobs...somethings gotta be big (you feel me?)

I can make a big girl feel just as good as a skinny girl in bed. And I've been with both. I consider myself kinda skinny so "bone-on-bone" contact ain't right for me. My motto is: "Bone is for the dog, meat is for the man". Now I'm not dissin the skinny girls (God bless them) however big girls are sexy too. And they are freaks, if not more of a freak than the skinny girls (cuz they gotta prove they got what it takes more than the skinny minnis).

With that said, A big girl need not worry about weight because there are guys that will clamour over her. A big girl with mad confidence (like her sh*t don't stink) is a skinny girl's worst nightmare. Because a skinny girl can get attention automatically by being skinny but a fat girl normally has bigger boobs or ass (which guys do like) and that can be a deal breaker.

The problem wit most studs is that they ain't confident in themselves and care what they're stupid ass friends think and end up gittin the skinny girl because she's socially accepted amongst a group. However, there are many many many Big Girl closet lovers out there. The internet is an example of that. For your own experiment, type in "big boobs bbw" in the Google search bar and then click images (PS: Change the preferences to "no filter on images"). You will see what society considers "fat" but these are some of the sexiest women in the world and they all have websites for a reason.

Bottom line: Fat girls have sex too. I think the majority of the girls on that show "More to Love" on FOX (Tuesday nights, 9 PM EST) are sexy as hell. And the majority are 180lbs to 260lbs. A big girl needs to have madd madd confidence and she will get madd madd attention leading to madd madd guys!

[sarafina0]

I really appreciate that answer and being honest with it. thank you .

[Ceci33]

😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😍😍😍😍😍. I am in love!!!

[Torodon]

Poor poor sarafina. You have some serious self esteem issues. Don't you know that beauty is all how you perceive it. A lot of men won't find a woman attractive that is totally insecure in herself. I know a number of overweight women that love who they are and the way they look, and that just makes them appear sexier. But on a personal note. My wife is overweight. And she is completely beautiful to me.

Be proud of how you look and who you are. And if the man you are with can't appreciate you for that. Then he is a cretin and doesn't deserve you anyway.

[tammymac]

I think this question is very mean, you talk like people who are overweight are less then human. As if they don't have enough issues with their own thoughts of insecurity running through their heads now you've implanted your thought like "is it ok to have sex even if you are fat" OMG I can't believe you said that it shocks and appalls me to the core how f***ing insensitive you are. Wow the stupidity of this question amazes me. I know some people are so stuck on having the perfect body, the perfect hair, the perfect everything, but the rest of us, the real people in the world, realize love should not be just for the perfect people in this world. Don't you know anyone who is not perfect personally. Would you expect them to not have sex or love in their lives because they were not your idea of perfect. How cruel is that, these are real people your talking about not some substandard race of mutants.

[sarafina0]

Of first of all. You MISUNDERSTAND the whole point of this question. There is a reason why I ask this question. I have a large body ok, and I wanted to know why guys always do this. They always talk about how disgusting it was, or how unattractive it was and all of the above questions. I know exactly how big people feel. You have no right to tell me that am not sensitive because you are wrong. I have to be very specific of what I wanted to know, this questions was not suppose to hurt someone.

[tammymac]

Then you need to learn how the write your story so everyone understands, we can only go on the information you give us, and what you gave us, made not only me, think you were bashing everyone who was overweight. Asking if "it was ok to even have sex" if you were fat made me think you were some skinny twit who was just looking for people to agree that fat people were a substandard race of humans. Sorry if my comments hurt you feelings, that was not my intent I just wanted to bash the basher

[sarafina0]

It's ok, I know you meant that in a good way. Sorry for not being cleared. but it's so hard to lose weight and that's where am heading. Any tips on losing weight and eating healthy?

[LessthanLisa]

I would recommend starting with reasonable goals - don't think in the long term, don't say "I'll lose ___ pounds in a year. " start with "I'm going to try and lose one or two ponds this week. ". Goals like that are easier to reach and they keep your confidence up, whereas doing things the other way, you may think, "wow, I'm no where near where I want to be. " and feel discouraged. Ask yourself why do you want to lose the weight, remind yourself of that whenever you feel tempted to binge.

[sarafina0]

Thanks. i'll think that way from now on.

[ethanallen]

you should post a fatty picture here for us

[LessthanLisa]

Well, I'm on the lower side of my healthy weight zone however if I were over weight you can bet I'd still be having sex with my significant other because that is perfectly acceptable.

You need to remember that everyone likes different things, like you might like a color that I don't like, or a song that I don't like, it's the same way with people. I personally am more attracted to skinny guys, my significant other is attracted to skinny girls. Works out great for us, however his best friend is more attracted to heavy set women, and my brother is more attracted to heavy set women. My best friend adores boys that are bigger, as well. It depends on the person and what they like. And of course it's possible for a heavy girl to feel sexy in bed, why shouldn't she? Beauty is not one size and shape. Imagine if it were, we'd all be bored out of our minds by now.

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend always tells me I'm beautiful, that he loves my body and he wouldn't change a thing about me. I don't agree most of the time. I hate my body and feel as if he could do so much better than me. I'm trying to change my view of myself because I've never had a positive image of myself. I can't really see myself being naked with him because of how much I hate my body, but I'm trying to change. I love him and he loves me for me, so I guess I should love myself for who I am. I'll try, but it's going to be hard.

[prepneck336]

I think that it's all about confidence. I am wayyy over weight, but I only look about 20 lbs over weight, and I'm only 15, but I've had about twenty boyfriends in my life, I get self-conscious sometimes, but when I get around guys I think are hot, I just flaunt what my momma gave me, and plus I've got a pretty face, and these boobs don't turn them away either!

[dakadan]

It is a very shallow person who couldn't see someone for who they are and not what they are. A person's soul is where their beauty is.

I'm not sure the point of the question. If you are above your ideal height to weight ratio then are you questioning yourself in which case you have low self esteem. If you are right on or below then...?

[archer86]

This is a very sensitive question as it can make people look mean and unpleasant. I will not deny that overweight women(and I mean BIG) are much less desirable, but obesity can be overcome. I have had sex with a really big woman once, and well, it wasn't very good. But she was very happy with me, which made my day as I enjoy giving happiness to others. The bad news is that once she was on top, it was over! She crushed me like a grape! HAHA

There is an old saying: "Better Dead Than Fat". Most overweight people know they are fat and despise looking at themselves everyday. Our culture has no room for fat people anymore than it tolerates ugliness or short men. Unfortunately, people just do not look past the physical and what makes the person on the inside. Big people want to improve themselves all the time and have the desire to do so. But it takes effort and time.

I will say no more on this, very touchy subject.

[geekygamer79]

For me minus the whole sex part, I do not really find skin and bones all that attractive I like average to above average, few extra lbs, or better yet thick and curvy, but if you are with someone they shouldn't try to make you feel uncomfortable or disgusted about yourself especially if they love you and vice versa, after all the physically is only initially and does fade I mean sure an attraction between two people is nice but personality is what can make a woman more attractive to me, if two people mesh and like each other I would like to think everything else can be thrown out the window.

Lets face it the world is full of superficial people hung up on looks and physical appearance among other things, I think I have meet all the ones that are girls....lol

[dohcrwd]

I like thick and curvy woman too HIGH 5

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

Yuck yuck yuck look at that hungry hungry hippo canipple can't feed that Land whale enough... Just keeps eating like Kirby... I don't like fat women... fat women need to eat less... hit cardio at the gym more... Normally when it comes to fat chicks I try to avoid them... If I am ever EXTREMELY DESPERATE dealing with a fat chick she's paying for the date... Because I'm not paying for pounds in pounds and pounds and pounds in pounds and pounds of food to feed her hole.. And if I'm stupid enough to f*** her... I wear 2 condoms... I also hold my breath so I won't smell that stinky fat p****. If we meet it has to be really late around 12 or 3 AM with everyone's sleep so nobody can see us... I can't be seeing with a piggy... That's like Kermit the frog... Getting caught smashing Miss piggy.!
Before I meet her I make sure I go to the grocery store and ask for a paper bag So I have something that will fit over her fac If I f*****... Unfortunately they do not make paper bags big enough for the whole body to be covered... So I have to Pay extra to buy heavy duty glad the trash bags all black Party size To use while f****** so there will be no physical contact. I have to do all this without anybody saying so I moved like a ninja In the darkness... Then ghost like casper... Then I would pray to God to forgive me for smashing a hideous Humongous cow.. Crossing my fingers no soul has seen me commit such an act. In order to do this I also need 50 billion dollars in cash or sent to my account... And it would need to be in order to save a family member's life... Besides that I would not smash a fat chick.

[Billlewis]

Oh, absolutely -- and I'll tell you how I make love to her.

she lies face down on the floor, with her sexy fat ass facing upwards. I lie down behind her and wedge my face snugly between her huge butt cheeks, and try to get my nose as far up her butt as possible. Then, I lick her asshole until she climaxes repeatedly in my face.

[ppfxxx]

"Now,girls is it ok to have sex with man even if your fat"

What a despicable question why shouldn't it be ok. One of the sexiest girls I ever knew was overweight. She just exuded sex appeal far more than some skinny girls I've known

[tammymac]

You tell her!

[sarafina0]

I know that. That's why I have to know. I've known men that are shallow so I was curious. I never said you can't have a man if your fat. I wanted to know more about it because people are hurting about this and I was wondering why.

[tzdc21]

Yeah he could have sex with a fat girl.

[ethanallen]

Hell yes I fuck fat girls. They are incredibly wild in bed. It is amazing.

[Davidbrooks]

I have and I actually enjoyed it
She felt really good. Only issue was that l had a few drinks. And didn't wear a condom and shot my load in her twice. (We had sex two times) both times unprotected. But she felt great xxx

[Davidbrooks]

She told me that l was great sex. So she invited me to her house for 2 weeks MADE LOVE twice a day. Made each other feel special. We went out on boat trips restrunt and l started not to care about her weight because it felt like we were in love. She broke it off when l got home. Broke my heart.

[bh6676r942]

Yep I would if she's attractive

[steveusna]

I have a lot of girlfriends (monogamous long term). Some had perfect bodies, some were chubby, some were actually obese. I can say 100% that body shape has nothing to do with quality of sex. If anything, I think that obese women had more confidence and felt free to explore and try new things in bed together. I read some of the comments here from men. I would just say that the two of you (guy and fat partner) should read some articles on 'fat sex positions.' (not porn sites) They are really helpful. The other thing is that some people measure sex quality by how visually stimulated they are (hot body) and how amazing the orgasm was. That really misses out on a full experience of sex. Focus on intimacy, awareness, kindness, affirmation. Don't rush to genital sex. Explore each other's body slowly. Look into your partner's eyes. For sure, finish with orgasms but take your time ( a long time) to go there. You will feel something in places besides your dick.

[Mont1989]

Fat girl is a girl with big size charms and this is sexy as I see

[Mark987]

I will say this AGAIN. A man can not have sex as easily as a woman.

[Mark987]

a woman go out and have sex easily.. for a man it's so much harder

[sophilly-guy]

Yes I would have sex with a fat girl. In fact I believe in the saying "the more cushion the better the push in"

[Hardworkingguy]

Sure. I've already been with women like that. They're usually more passionate. It's quite good

[Sambelfast9in]

My ex was a big girl and that didn't put me off sex with her. I find the bigger she is the easier it is to fit in.

[Dave576]

Yeah

[condor66]

Yes, all girls need love

[antonia]

most guys do not care how you look as long as they get some meat you know what I mean that's why man are called pigs

[Erikzman]

of course I would! <3