Do men get tired of having sex with the same female?

[Marielee209]

I've been with my man for five years and was wondering if men ever get tired of sleeping with the same girl?

[Cougargrl]

Been with my guy for almost 20 years and the key is variety! We also are very open and honest with one another about exactly what we like and what we want to try. The great outdoors and the cars have a bunch of really good options for being creative - get out there and try. The element of surprise is good too! We're often trying to come up with crazy things to do. I also have an obsession for lingerie so he constantly gets a surprise when undressing me and finds something new! I can honestly say that in our years together he's never said anything about being bored and I've never been left wanting. If there is a true underlying love, lust and respect for one another, there's always a way to keep boredom at bay.

The really great thing is that he knows the signals for wht kind of night we'll have. He can tell if want roses and candlelight or screaming and headbanging! Does that make it routine for him? I doubt it. I can also read what he needs. Some nights he needs just a really good stellar bj and some nights he wants something different. Is that routine for me? Nope - just makes it easier to have a satisfying love life.

Sorry that's a bit long and preachy - hope it helps!

[gravygirl]

Yeah, they they get tired of it. It's definitely something you have to overcome to have a long relationship. I'm sure that women who don't account for this have a much higher rate of divorce than women that do. And I don't think it's insurmountable. Basically you should try to make him feel like he isn't missing anything at all by not being with other women. If he thinks that they'd give him something that you won't then he's bound to think about it and that might not end well.

[Titi18]

i worry about that too, since am moving in with my fiance in couple of months, I always wonder what if our sex life get boring, it scares me sometimes...but like I said you are so hot and if he doesn't want you anymore, am sure another guy would. lol (and that's what I always say to myself too)

[johnsmith2116]

Good point! A hot girl has the right to excercise the choices that she has. If a guy somehow gets tired of a woman, she needs to move on to a real man.

[Titi18]

John ur awsome =)

[setcheck67]

Well the irony of nature is that it programmed men with a desire to breed continuously with as many women as possible. It's a difficult thing to overcome. I spent 1 year with a girl and my mind started to wander. However the best thing is to add a good variety in bed. Another thing is you can't let him spend a week without sexual release and this does not need to be actual sex. (unless you completely drain him in one day). He may want to be loyal, but his penis doesn't. Once he stops getting sex from somewhere he feels that old urge that every man has felt since the dawn of time. The urge to find sex. The good news is that with age the desire begins to slowly fade away. Try really kinky ideas in bed. Try different positions. Hell just do something spontaneous and strange. Like be stark naked in front of him when he comes home :D.

[twiaddict333]

So I guess a guy who listens to his penis, doesn't have a mind for himself? I think that is a pretty pathetic excuse for guys to cheat....just like how they say men have a cheating gene...bullsh*t.. ur just a player who is never satisfied

[setcheck67]

Don't call me something I'm not. I stated a scientific fact. In no way do I put myself on the level to listen to my penis(pituitary gland, which is a part of the brain). I never cheated on her and I didn't break it up till she cheated. My mind simply wandered(oh yea I'm guilty of being a man that sees hot girls he would love to plow), but in now way do I forget the emotional attachment I held to my girl. That is till she cheated and I just said, "Bye, don't call me!".

[WhatIsThisIDont]

Yeah unfortunately. Best thing to do is try new things now and then and try to create that spark again. BUT just because a guy can get tired of the same old sex from the same person, doesn't mean he is tired of that person. They can still be very much in love, just bored.

[Professor_Zoom]

It depends on if you are both keeping things exciting in bed. After five years sex in any relationship can get stale. If you're doing the same things over and over, then you should spice it up a bit. Sure, he may wonder what sex is like with other girls, but sex with someone you've been with for five years is usually more passionate and intense than with someone you just met. So have a little variety.

[peace-love-couture]

Variety is key.Change things up every now and then.Try new things.Experiment.Fulfill fantasies.

[Dantheman6500]

Been with my girl for almost 4 years. I think about what it would be like with another girl.. But the grass isn't always greener. Would never act on it but would love for her to bring in another girl one night :p

[oceanlab75]

I think a lot of guys and even girls would agree with this - good thing not to cheat but just have fun once in awhile.

[Dantheman6500]

Heh how do I convince her I won't run off with the 3rd wheel? She's mortified that's what will happen... I'm like what are you thinking? I'm with you 4 years and you think I'll take off at the sight of boobs?

[MrWizard]

Hard to answer... Can it get routine? Yes, so you try to keep things interesting by mixing it up a little now and then: new positions, new location, new sexy outfits, etc. Do I get so "tired" of sex with her that I wouldn't want it? No! I'd take boring routine sex any day. ;) Would I ever trade my girl because of it? Never.

[Titi18]

I love your answer.

[Littletad]

Only if they are not faithful.

[johnsmith2116]

Not for me! My longest relationship was 6 years, and I honestly couldn't get enough.

As long as the two of them take care of each other in bed the way that each of them likes it, it never gets tiring.

[gotc147]

If it's the same thing over and over and over again, then it's possible. Try new things every so often and you should've have anything to worry about.

[drummerdude25]

One girl is all I would need... the right girl. I mean once I find her, I wouldn't fantasize about anyone else because she'd be the perfect girl for me! I would need (or want) anyone else!

I'm waiting for the right girl anyways... then you'd have no one else to compare them to so you'd be more satisfied overall with the person you have. I honestly don't think I'd ever get bored with the same person. But like I said, she'd be the RIGHT person! :)

That's just my personal take tho...

[coolguy93939]

i don't think I would ever get tired of you

[EthanArtman]

We can definitely get bored, no doubt. Do you spice things up now and then? Bringing another girl in is fun, but not for everyone. Anal is a safe and healthy way to add variety to your love-making - have you let him try that yet?

[really123]

yep

[funnyguy84]

ummm...you're really hot...so I'm guessing you're man doesn't get tired of you...and if he does...well...it's his loss

[jon92179]

I don't think that they get tired of sleeping with the same girl. That being said, that doesn't mean they wouldn't appreciate a little variety. If you haven't already try doing things to ensure that the sex isn't routine(costumes help...french maid, cheerleader, cowgirl...you get the picture!). Also new positions can be fun. And New Lingerie adds a lot of excitement. Also don't be afraid to ask him for the things you would like to try to keep it exciting.

[lilcam777]

if y'all having sex all the time then he's going to get bored very fast. But if you don't have sex with him he's going to be kinda upset! But your best bet is to ask him that's the only way to find out! But if your sex game is on point meaning something new every time instead of same positions all the time then he shouldn't get tired if you!

[Gallardomarco]

not really

[Anonymous]

if it´s the right one, hell nahhhhhh

[Anonymous]

my friend has a girl friend who could be a porn star and he's with her for 5 years...he's getting tired of her. I can't tell you how many times I've reminded him that he's got something special on his hands...

If I had the chance to date you...I don't think I'd get tired of you. From what I see, I don't think any guy would get tired of you...and if he does...oh well, there will be another guy who wont.