How should I tell my wife that I like being in panties?

[Derrickoh01]

I started to wear panties about 8 months ago and now I can't seem to stop. I have been wearing them on the sneak and have bought several pairs. I put them on as soon as my wife leaves for work and only have worn them at home but want to wear them all day. I'm confused because I know guys shouldn't wear panties but I really love the way panties look and feel on me, I know I am not gay so this makes no sense to me.

[michelle3685]

I happen to think that it is very sexy.I love getting guys that I'm seeing,to dress up for me in women's clothing and lingerie.Weird maybe,but I love the way they look,especially if they have a nice figure.Some like it immediately,and others go along,albeit hesitantly,at first because they feel the need to protest and act manly,as if it's offensive,or something,but in the end they all come around and admit that they enjoy it,and even insist on dressing completely,when we're getting intimate.It's even fun to go out to clubs with a crossdressed guy,have a few cocktails,do a little dancing,some flirting and then home for some fun. Even my girlfriends get a kick out of it,and think that it's cool,and will even help me dress up a guy,do his makeup,go shopping for new outfits and things,etc.

So hey,if you want to wear panties,go for it and let your wife deal with it.Once she's gotten over the initial reaction to it,and realizes that you're the same guy,and still love her(you do,don't you?)and that it spices things up for you,sexually,then is that such a bad thing for her,either?Good luck!

[Hisexy]

Hi Michelle , you sound amazing. I love a women to put me in panties and lingerie. I would let you dress me up how you wanted and would love being in silky lacy outfits

[michelle3685]

@Hisexy I know you would. It's your "thing", right?

[Hisexy]

It is do you like my picture in my panties?

[michelle3685]

@Hisexy Yes, very cute!

[Hisexy]

Thank you very much you are very sweet. Glad you liked them means a lot and they are very silky on me ☺

[michelle3685]

@Hisexy I'm sure they feel really nice on you.

[Hisexy]

They feel great yes. What kind of panties do you like to see on men?

[michelle3685]

@Hisexy Something that covers them sufficiently, but allows for it to bulge, like boy shorts or brief styles. Pantyhose or tights work well, also.

[Hisexy]

I love boy shorts have a few pairs. I like hipsters also. I agree I like the panties to cover my ass it feels so good hugging my ass tight. Glad you replied like to hear your thoughts.

[michelle3685]

@Hisexy Sounds like you have quite a collection. Do you cross dress completely or just stick with the panty thing?

[Hisexy]

I wear lingerie , bras, dresses , yoga pants , skirts to name a few things haha. I dont wear much out usually just for home. I wear panties at times under my cloths it really turns me on when I do that.

[michelle3685]

@Hisexy Do you live alone? Must need privacy for your fem wardrobe.

[Hisexy]

I dont live alone. Part of the fun is wearing panties under my cloths while my girlfriend doesn't know I have them on lol.

[michelle3685]

@Hisexy Very risqué! She has no idea? Never found your girlie duds even once?

[Hisexy]

She did once she had me put on and seemed to like it. But when I tried again she didn't seem as willing so I don't around her with her knowing lol

[Hisexy]

I want to wear the outfits with stalkings makes me feel so tirned on

[michelle3685]

@Hisexy She must know, but doesn't feel comfortable talking about it. If you guys live together, trust me, she knows.

[Hisexy]

It does make me feel naughty when I wear them and she has no idea. You seem so open to it wish she was more that way. Do you like seeing guys in all types of women cloths?

[Hisexy]

Hope to talk again jad fun. I would like to send more pics on my profile for you to see me dressed have good night

[michelle3685]

@Hisexy It can be really cute, even sexy, but they have to be able to pull off the whole look by actually attempting to achieve the fem image. I mean, it can look really silly to see a guy in a dress and heels, with hairy legs. With me, it's got to be one way or the other. If you want to dress en femme, then I'd like to see them shave their legs, try some make up and a wig. Ever do that?

[Hisexy]

I have done the makeup thing love putting on lip stick makes me feel sexy along with a wig and other makeup. I have shaved my legs to and put on pantyhose. like you think it can be sexy that's so hot

[michelle3685]

@Hisexy Good for you! I applaud your effort!

[Hisexy]

Thank you I find it extremally hot that you are into all of this. Love hearing your views thanks for talking with me

[michelle3685]

@Hisexy Thank you.

[ZooLander1]

I wish my fiance had your view on this. You sound like a really cool girl 😍

[michelle3685]

@ZooLander1 Thank you.

[ZooLander1]

@michelle3685 Your my kinda woman 😍

[Kinkyhubby]

Hi Michelle, I hope my wife will be that open when I tell her I like to wear panties. I definitely love how they feel. And only wear when I can. I do fit in hers but they are usually a little tight. Would love n go pick out matching panties with her, but afraid how she will respond

[Pinkpanties123]

@Hisexy yes I do can I wear them also

[Pinkpanties123]

@Hisexy I would love to be fully dressed in women's clothing an even try tampons an pads

[Pinkpanties123]

@Hisexy yes I do

[Pinkpanties123]

I can't wait to wear panties and bra and hosean high heels an be a woman 👠♀️

[Pinkpanties123]

Yes both

[michelle3685]

@Pinkpanties123 Sounds like you know what you want!

[Kinkyhubby]

Hey Michelle, how many of your boyfriend have you gotten to wear panties? That is awesome you are so into it I love how lace and satin ones feel.

[serm416]

Do you and your wife have a fairly open communication to begin with? And are you able to express your desires and needs in the bedroom so you are both satisfied? A yes to both of these questions should allow her to be more understanding than you think... Myself I'm hoping she's loving enough to allow you to express yourself in any way you want that isn't harmful to herself or you.

As for the panties...I just wrote to another person and the same answer applies - If it feels good and doesn't hurt anyone...why not? Women who wear sexy lingerie frequently report feeling more sensual and have a more confident step when they are wearing nice underwear. Why should that be different for a man? If you're comfortable and feel sensual and it improves your sex life...I just don't see a down side.

Hopefully all the planets will align for you and it will work out. Buy her some too...

[ILoveElijah]

It is normal to feel appealing when you wear sexy fabric/lingerie. Maybe this is a sexual fetish of yours and if she is open minded she will use it to her advantage when you two have intercourse. I don't really know what to say...there is no easy way to tell your wife this. If she has no idea, this will simply just blow her mind. I wish you good luck because to some women this can be a huge turn off.

[UnknownFox]

Walk up to her wearing them and go "TA-DA!"

...okay now on the real side. If your comfortable in them, just tell her, there is no real gender limit when it comes to clothing. Perhaps society wise but none the less, if its something your fine with, just let her know.

However though, I do know a lot of guys who actually wear thongs and g-strings, don't really wish to ask why cus they don't seem fitting for males but, eh, if they enjoy it.

[lovelingerie]

I have a good pair of panties

[Pinkpanties123]

@lovelingerie I would love to wear your panties and bra and clothes an do more things as a woman

[torken]

If you like the feel most of all, you could try and find some nice silk men's underwear. I know that they make some, that might scratch your itch, but that's only if you feel too weirded out by going telling your wife.

[EmberlyMai]

I don't think there's a good way to do it. Just do it.

There's nothing gay about panties, btw. Being gay is about liking men, not clothes or food or recreation or anything else. People. People who like sexy panties are straight men and lesbians, so this rather confirms your love of women, if anything.

[l-hedoniste]

"I'm confused because I know guys shouldn't wear panties" This is nonsense. Wear what you want.

Ask your wife if you can wear her panties. If she says no, buy your own. She'll adjust.

[mav0502]

talk to her about how you feel and what you think. until you do that you never really know what can happen.

[jjjplayboy]

are you gay or something?

[XxbitemeXx]

Seriously why do that to her. Keep it to yourself. She married a man be a man

[Loving_Husband]

I'd say tell her. My wife loves that I wear panties and your wife might love it too!!

[cinderelli]

tell her that you like to do it.. and if she gets mad or something.. then say '' at least i am not wearing your bra''

[Abbypink420]

Yea lol. I would say at least I have style lol. But can you message me? Im a straight crossdresser just trying to meet a girl I can send pics of myself all dolled up im just looking for feedback and advice on how to be a girly girl.

[cinderelli]

@Abbypink420 I'm really not interested lol

[ZooLander1]

Hi. I have had the urge to wear knickers since i was 8. But bought my 1st pair when i was 19. I had bought loads and thrown them away so many times. Now im 37 and own about 40 pairs. My fiance doesn't like it so i dont wear them much. I would love to wear them everyday. I love how they feel on. I mostly like full knickers or midi styles and high leg knickers. It makes me sad that i can't wear them. My fiance just ain't into it 😔😔😔

[Kinkyhubby]

@michelle3695 wow you sound awesome. I hope my wife will be that open, when I try to tell her

[BLP11520]

Research panty wearers, many enjoy them

[Bobbiesue1]

It is only clothing. Golly, the same factory makes guys and girls undies. Why get caught up in a gender crisis related to underwear? Aren't there more important issues than this? I wear panties all the time. It's a comfort factor and an expression of how I feel inside. I'm entitled to that! Clothing is an extension of the skin. What I wear is nobody else's concern. And, should they not like that, they can go ahead and feel that way. Thank you very much!

[lovelingerie]

I love wearing panties and I have told quite a few women

[Funboi]

Your a sissy