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Are large labia minora a turn off, u know the kind that dangle and sh*t?

Sooo i've just hit 20 and I'm still a virgin because I'm so embarrassed of my vagina. I've grown up hearing tons of people say stuff like girls with large labia minoras are 'loose and slutty' because there's this stigma attached to their size being a result of having lots of sex, which i obviously know isn't true but it bothers me that a lot of people i know seem to think that. Also i just think it looks kind of gross... i mean is there anything faintly attractive about large dangly bits in the eyes of you guys? does it turn u off? This is really holding me back from even getting in a relationship with anyone because i don't feel i can commit intimately because I'm that insecure, i haven't even allowed myself to be in a single relationship. I told myself i'd start dating once i get funds for reduction but i dont know how long that will actually take... and im pretty scared of going under the knife. And also girls if any of u think u have a similar type of vagina can u share with me what ur partenrs have thought/think.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • There are lots of girls on GAG who have worried about the same thing you're worried about. Your labia are perfectly normal. It's perfectly normal for the inner labia to show through the outer labia, and for the clitoral hood to show as well. So there's absolutely nothing wrong with your labia. The problem is your self-consciousness and worry about it. But it's not uncommon for girls to feel like you do. There's a great blog on Tumblr called "Labia Love" that helps girls with your kind of worries. There are lots of photos to show people just how normal their parts are. There is no one way that vulvas are "supposed" to look. They're all as unique as fingerprints.

  • My gf's dangle. I'm the only guy she's ever been with. I wasn't aware there was a stigma that means she's a slut. Honestly, who cares? Most guys know it's natural for some to be that way. The ones who don't probably aren't old enough to be with... no need to worry about reductions. Any guy you'd need to get a reduction for isn't worth it. Don't change yourself. It's a vagina and it's beautiful.

Most Helpful Girls

  • please don't mutilate your labia! think of them like the pretty petals on an orchid! Plus I have heard guys complain about tiny labia and how it's not much fun to give oral to a girl with tiny labia. Either way guys are just going to be thankful, no guys would complain~!

  • I asked a similar question a while back. Most of my answers from guys was that they didn't care either way. I think we've been worrying over nothing!

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    I wouldn't go under the knife for that. Own it. I wouldn't be turned off.

  • A lot of women in porn have large labias.

    If they can be comfortable enough to show them off in front of cameras for thousands, maybe millions to watch them in all sorts of close-ups and high definition, then surely you can be comfortable enough to show yours to one person that likes you for who you are and not for what your genitalia looks like.

  • Awwww you are being seriously silly sweetie.
    There is nothing wrong with your vagina, it's perfectly normal!
    Lots of girls are the same as you and they don't care and neither do all their happy boyfriends so why should you? It's not like you need to care what everyone thinks you just need to care what one thinks and that's the guy you are dating :))
    Come on don't be silly it's normal yeah! :)

  • Do not feel embarrassed about anything with your vagina. Guys are just happy being able to see one, feel one, finger one and hopefully have sex wit one. (as you know a guy will prefer any vagina as opposed to jerking off) Don't over-think it.

  • Sounds like you have an "outtie". While surveys here at G@G consistently show that innies are preferred over outties, it is not a big issue. If it bothers you, you can get labiaplasty. But, I say, fuck that. If a guy doesn't love you solely because of this, then he's not the right guy for you anyway.

  • No they are a turn on

  • Dangling is one thing, pushing out shit is another story...

  • It's not a turn off for me at all. Honestly the only thing that really matters is that she has good hygiene down there

  • It's absolutely fine

  • I have always wanted to be with a girl like you I think it is hot don't be self conchis just like a guy with a small penis you have big labias any guy that let that stop him from loveing you and making love to you is not a man and a boy you don't need start your life and have some fun ;)

    • Wow I did not even see your pic you are hot you have absalutly nothing to worie about

  • to be completely honest with you, that turns me off but don't let it discourage you, it doesn't really matter that much to most men. some men might even find it as a turn on.

    • Says the dude who got his first kiss a few weeks ago ^ Don't listen to this guy seriously he is 17 with no sexual experience.

    • you have a good point, to be fair.

    • but it wasn't a few weeks ago you fyi

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  • Ok, so this is kind of an oxymoron. It's not as attractive to look at, but it's more fun to give oral to.

    It's still attractive, don't wory.

  • Stupid young guys with no brain and no experience and no taste for women, still (stupid ) boys , need to grow up.
    Don't pay a penny for their opinion.
    I prefer oties, and you are a sexy lucky girl.

  • It can be something interesting to play with ;) But is that knife is going to left scars.. oversensitive skin.. ?

  • Vagina has many forms. We love them all. My wife has big labia. For me it is exciting.

  • nothing to be worried about relax

  • You are fine dear. Just means to me you have more to play with before going in ;-)

  • No it's not a turn off

  • Wow, personally I love large labia minora, absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about, they look beautiful in my opinion.
    Love your body the way it is and forget about the surgery you very well may come to regret it.
    Most of us men love large labia minora or we don't mind if they are larger or smaller, if a man were to judge you on your bits n pieces kick him to the curb he's not worth your time.
    Hope this helps :)

  • You are just thinking too much. you think a guy cares with the size of your inner lips? Hell no. Just forget it, dont stress yourself. And do you want. That might actually be beneficial to both people to enjoy sex for all you know coz sometimes the vaginal opening is too small and that's a problem

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