Umm...this sound exactly. well sort of what happened to me one time. Except that I still live in the house and they are separated, not my fault! Well I am a good gal, those that are difficult to find or so my friends say. It happened that I was looking for a place to move in because I wanted to leave my relatives house. My friend had just bought a house with her husband and they had one open room so they offered it to me until I find another place. after one semester I decided its time to move but they didn't let me, more his idea than hers..anyways after much thought I decided to stay. The three of us became really good friends. We would go out to eat, movie or just hang out the three of us, sometimes I would just say I had to do something else so that they can enjoy sometime alone too.Anyways, I just thought her husband was a really nice and sweet guy but nothing else and I kinda knew that he was attracted to me or he like me. I am not conceited but to add to this I just wanted to say all guys I meet start to like me. I have a great personality and I am attractive, so I just kinda knew he was no exception especially that he really gets to know my personality very well since we live together you know. Anyways, my girl friend confessed to me while we were cooking together that her husband had a crush on me and that if he had a chance he would do me... she also said that if she would let him sleep with someone else that would be me. I totally flipped out and felt uncomfortable and I didn't know what to say! My friend told me that they had a really open conversation all the time but I just thought it was awkward that she would even consider that knowing how she is. I have known her like a prude and very conservative so that was weird! She knew me pretty well and she knew I'd never do anything that would compromised anyone relationship and its true I know myself and my limits. anyways, since that day I started to back off a bit from them. I would rarely go out with them and mostly distant myself from him. They aren't together now, not because of me but they had their own problems and one of them was that he had to be relocated to another state for work. I still live in the house but I do believe my friend had a self esteem issue just like ur wife and she was very insecure. I never misbehaved in their house and never made him think that we could be something but I have to admit that maybe I flirted with him during convos but that is part of my personality. I'm a natural flirter and it just happen that I do it with everybody so I had no control over that but I never crossed the line. A lot of people don't believe that another girl could live in a couple house and that it would create problems, even one of my best friend was wary about that when I told her I was moving into a friend couple's house but like I always said the guy would go as far as the girl let him go, but not all girls are like me so its like playing w/fire. I don't want a girl in my house.