Is front-to-front or back-to-front grinding better for guys?

[Anonymous]

It's a pretty simple question. Obviously a girl gets more stimulation when it's front-to-front because the guy's leg is in between hers, but what about from a guy's perspective? Which one is better in terms of basic physical touch? Also, does your preference of front-to-front or back-to-front grinding depend on what your relationship with the girl is? Personally, I think front-to-front is a little more intimate. Do guys maybe like to grind that way with girls they're in relationships with because the intimacy is more important than just the physical touching aspect?

[Anonymous]

Thank you.

Why is the guys leg in between her legs... That may explain why I was with this guy , and all of the sudden I felt like I was standing on my tip toes. Maybe his leg was like elevating me without me realizing it - I was feeling other stuff which I just assumed was from being close, but could this lift someone up a bit? I could not see his legs I mean I was looking at his eyes. Does the leg thing happen instinctively. I mean the other way seems normal but the leg part - is it for balance

Why is front to back not with leg in between all this meant for a replacement for sex when you can't get naked? Sorry for all the questions - I have not done much but I i want to know what to expect... I just started seeing someone and anything we do is entirely him. I mean any of this sort of 'moves' kind of thing... Don you doesn't this make you want to do the actual real sex? Can you do this without expecting to go further?

Sorry, I know I'm not a guy, I'll stop responding to this post. Though I wouldn't mind you cluing me in on the leg thing- wouldn't you get stimulation from his penis more then his leg - oh... do you grind when a guy is NOT errect? That was not the case with this guy. If it when not errect, then I understand the leg. Ok.

[Asker]

I'm going to attempt a diagram because I can't explain it anymore with words. so == is a girl and her two legs together. and - - is a guy. when you grind it ends up being = - = -. so your leg is in between his legs and his leg is in between your legs. so you're grinding your crotches on each other's legs. the reason you stick your leg in between his or vice versa is for the stimulation. and yeah, girls definitely get turned on by frontal grinding, not so much front-to-back.

[Anonymous]

What does grinding have to do with legs... I thought it was when you are rubbing up against each others genitals

Am I confusing this with dry f***ing?...On that note, I have never had sex... I was wondering how frustrating that would be for guys if there was no hope of sex, lets say that same night... I mean if you were making out with a girl, and you guys were like rubbing up against each other-Would it be a turn off, because it is a poor substitution for the real thing. Would it be a turn on just in a diffferent way? - - Sort of like carob is great as long as you are not expecting chocolate.

[Asker]

So back-to-front grinding = girl's butt up against guy's crotch and it's butt-to-crotch grinding. front-to-front grinding is girl's legs spread, guy's leg in between her legs, and crotch-to-crotch grinding. I don't know how to describe it in any more detail but hopefully that makes sense.

[Anonymous]

Most of the time if you don't know a guy grind back-to-front and you in front of the guy. Only if you've been grinding for a while will the guy maybe want to spin you around or if it is a intimate relationship front-to-front is fine. Just bottom line: start with back toy front guys like it more for grinding if you don't know them

[Anonymous]

both but more of back to front