My boyfriend is really into Asian chicks (and I'm not Asian)?

we've been together for 3 years in a serious relationship and as far as I know he only watches asian porn. he talks about asian girls often. at one point he said "you're ok too" (if it matters he's white) he likes Asian girls with big boobs. I'm white with a 34A. i feel super inadequate. he says he loves me the way I am, but his obsession is making me feel otherwise. What should I do!?
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  • well a lot of people might say here it's a fetish of his, but at the end it still his likes and preference... I am sure that if he had a chance with an Asian girl he will go for it! yeah he is with you and maybe it's true that he loves you the way you are but I think that if he had to choose, he will definitely choose the Asian girl... I have a lot of male friends that are into Asians and some of them even though are into Asians might as well date other races... but their preference when you ask, they will say more into Asians... I have asked them many times and that has been their answers... One guy I am seeing, puts porn sometimes to get us in the mood and those two times were just Asian porn ... one a DVD and the other one was just from the net of an Asian chick giving a BJ. I know he is into Asians because He has told me... Anyways, there is nothing you can do... its his preference just like everyone has their own preference ...

    • I forgot to mention that he should not be talking about them all the time to you... that's like a blow on your face! you should tell him that that makes you uncomfortable... maybe you should find someone that would be more into you... because I don't think I myself can put up with that for that long!

  • to tell you the truth, I'm an asian girl and I REALLY envy you all western girls. you girls are strong, smart, pretty and most of all very independent. we asian girls were taught since we're little girls to be more submissive and more feminine in our lives which I totally disagree. don't feel inadequate, be happy with yourself and get your man to respect you for you are. hey, I'm just a 32B which is still small, if that makes you feel any better. good luck sister.

  • tell him to shut up about asian girls

    next time he talks about asian girls, start talking about black guys. say how you love their smooth chocolate skin and you wonder if the stereotypes are true. this is called "giving someone a taste of their own medicine". when he objects or says something, tell him that's exactly how you feel when he goes on and on about asian girls.

Most Helpful Guys

  • he clearly has a thing for asian chicks but I think talking about them to you often isn't a good idea. let him know how much it's beginning to make you uncomfortable with yourself and hopefully he'll understand where you're coming from.

  • tell him not to talk about it and then just let him watch the porn. men can satisfy a lot of cravings with porn.

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