You very nicely explained why "nice" guys rarely hit the jackpot. It has nothing to do with nice vs. bad, it's the confidence and assertiveness that "nice" guys usually lack that causes them to miss out, and their tendency to procrastinate and not express themselves in a timely fashion. That said, women want both in the bedroom. You don't have to be disrespectful to be somewhat forceful. Obviously no means no, that's a no-brainer. I'm not talking about forcing people in an unwanted situation, no one wants that. A man can be in charge and confident in the bedroom and still be considered a respectful person.
I love an assertive forceful man who knows his own head. I'm so bloody indecisive that its awesome when a bloke says right we're doing such and such today, get your stuff love I want you ready in half an hour! HAWT.
Umm can I have both. I do want a man who is confident and likes to take charge and knows what he wants sexually but the sex is not really going to be that good if he is not respectful of what I want too.
Nice question. I think every girl likes there guy forceful once in a while, but is a respectable gentleman outside the bedroom.
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Sexually I want a man that knows what he wants or what to do for me. I don't want to have to explain what I want or have to try to figure out what he likes. I rather be told what to do and when to do it. It's just easier that way.
Plus it makes it more fun!
Just because anyone is nice, does NOT mean they are a dud in the bedroom. It's all up to the individual...I look sweet and nice (I am) but I'm an ANIMAL in the bedroom...Life is not that black and white.
Just feel her out, but don't dive in too fast you might turn her off.
Good Luck :--)
Both! I love nice guys, but I def. like like when the guy takes charge, it's pretty hot :o)
Being aggressive is 100% turn on. It's nice to know that the guy has things under control.
I like forceful up to a certain point, I have a guy a like so much but he is way too aggressive. We were together 12 years ago and I stopped seeing him because he was forceful. Now we re hanging out again, and he incurred in the same mistake. Unfortunately , turns me off. argh.
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