I tend to insult my FWB? Very Confused.

[kailar]

I met this guy on a dating website. We talk a lot and stuff on MSN and sometimes through text, or webcam and whatnot. I knew he didn't want to date me so I suggested we just be Friends With Benefits. Of course he jumped on the idea, which is what I wanted. The sex is amazing! (and we cuddle and stuff, watch movies etc which I don't agree with since I don't think you should be doing those things with someone you have no intention of dating. But that's besides the point) Anyways I avoid him on MSN and stuff because I am trying to avoid any emotional connection with this person. I know I don't want to fall for someone who doesn't want to date me. He obviously doesn't like me like that. I just insulted him over MSN and he disappeared. Should I be insulting towards him or play it nice?! I hate being cold hearted but that is exactly what you have to do in a situation like this! I mean he just told me "Don't fall for me. We're just friends" and yet I'm sensing some jealousy?! Just the little comments about being on webcam with other guys, sleeping with a bunch of dudes etc etc. When he knows he is the only one I do anything with. I don't sleep with anyone else and I don't talk on webcam with anyone else.. I am so confused! Do I just play it off and ignore his comments and continue to be a cold hearted person towards him or... what? Any thoughts on this would greatly be appreciated!

[nolan]

well first off I don't know why you insulted him I mean he didn't do anything wrong if you guys were getting too close you should just say skip the movie and lets just get to it

i mean in my opinion if that guy was me id stop talking to you because it makes no sense that he didn't do anything but you insulted him and think you should keep on insulting him...

[kailar]

I insulted him because he's the one always saying 'don't fall for me' etc etc and he is the one that wants to do the cuddling and whatnot. I feel like we are basically behaving like a couple even though he doesn't want that from me. So my insults were basically to the extent of "I won't fall for you because I want someone who wants me" more or less. I did start to get carried away though.

[nolan]

well then you should have just been open and talked about it not insulting him

just be like if you really don't want to get emotionally attached then don't do this stuff and that's it

[twiaddict333]

FWB never turn out to be a good idea...somewhere along the line emotions get in the way and someone ends up getting hurt

[kailar]

I'm starting to see that this may not be a good idea but I'm running out of ideas here. The sex is too amazing! It's very hard to remain emotionally unattached.