Why do guys watch porn if they have a girlfriend??

I felt really bad when I found out my boyfriend watches porn I cried I felt like he was emotionally cheating and that I might not have been good enough for him...I don't understand why guys would do that?

 

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  • Since you had no idea, I'm going to guess he does it when you're not available and he's ready to go. Even if you have sex like everyday, you're not there every second of the day. You could be out working/school, busy with chores/errands, sleeping, etc. It seems odd, but guys seem to not be able to wait very long. I've asked guys while I've dated them why they didn't just wait the 10-15 minutes until I was available for them and the answer I got was that they just couldn't. And I assume porn makes it a quick release too. No foreplay or anything. If he loves you, the porn is meaningless. It's just a tool to quickly get rid of his sexual frustration. I know it hurts to think he can get off while looking at another woman, but when it comes to the physical stuff guys seem to be content with anything that is boobed shaped or has women parts. I wouldn't worry about it too much. It'd be an issue if he would rather look at porn than be with you, but that doesn't sound like that's the case.

What Guys Said 4

  • I used to do it when my partner didn't wanna have sex. Makes sense doesn't it? I wanted to do it every day, but she only wanted it like every other day.

    • Oh trust me that isn't the problem with him I have just as big of a sex drive as he does that's why I was so surprised! If anything we go like at most 2 days without having sex and when we do have sex we go at it over and over!

  • because were are just like that... if we don't have sex often we need to ejaculate and we go watch porn to do so...

  • It does not mean he isn't attracted to you or thinks your ugly. Some guys just need a little private time. it is a problem if he has too much of that time and doesn't give you attention.

  • In all honesty, it's an addiction. And an addiction that can cause trouble in relationships. Guys won't admit it's an addiction, but it clearly is. Some men choose porn over their wives and family.

    • I think that depends.. If the addiction is enough to disrupt the guy from doing daily activities, and neglecting his woman, then that's pretty bad.But usually when people masturbate to porn.. There isn't much emotion involved..

    • Well I'm not talking about the emotional part. I'm talking about when a guy can't go a day or two without watching porn. Then you know it's an addiction.

What Girls Said 7

  • I wouldn't say it emotionally cheating. He's not developing strong connections with these women. Emotional cheating would be like cheating without sex, how he talks to other girls, and treats them.Porn is no way emotional. It's really nothing to worry about unless he chooses porn over you.

  • It's just something to do when they're bored... I know that's why I watch porn hah, and I would even if I was in a relationship it's nothing to do with them being good enough for me or not. But yeah.. most guys like porn..

  • if they have a girlfriend and watch porn the girlfriend might be bad in bed... most likely

  • that's just how some of them are.

  • There is nothing emotional with a guy when he watches porn. I am very possessive with my guy and I have no problem with him watching porn, I watch it too. We both know we watch porn, totally open about it. We know we love each other and that porn is just entertainment :P

  • yea guys are guys you can't stop that. I don't know why guys have sex with me when they have girlfriends, I even slept with a married guy too. They just can't help themselves that's why I don't get into relationships.

    • That work both way is just human nature

    • It's because you're a slut, and the guys are cheating losers!

    • Yea that could be

  • 1mo

    p*rn is an actual addiction. It sets unrealistic standards for both men and women, and is overall very damaging to relationships emotionally and physically. Did you know that watching p*rn can cause erectile dysfunction?

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