I am afraid of his penis.

[Anonymous]

HELP! Girls - has anyone had this problem? Guys & Girls - advice please! I know this sounds stupid but... I am afraid of his penis. I have a bf, we've been dating for a month. I want to have sex with him, BUT. I am kind of... like... afraid? of his penis. He has stripped down to boxers and I have no problems getting naked myself... but I am afraid to take the next step and have him be fully naked. How will he expect me to react? Will he want me to touch him there? What if I'm too nervous / don't want to? Will he be hurt? What if he is too big for me? What if I can't hide my fear? HELP! ADVICE PLEASE?!

[Enideqa]

Have you tried talking to him, tell him that you're a little nervous? Are you a virgin? I know that I was very scared my first time touching a guy, that I was going to do something wrong, that it was going to be gross. He had no problems with my fear, he just like knowing that I was willing to tell him that I was nervous, and he told me it was ok. I had to go very slow.

[Asker]

Thanks... maybe I will just tell him about it (even though it sounds stupid to me) and take things really slow... or just not worry about it and see what happens... hmm.

[gagabebe]

maybe if you guys are stripping down naked then you can lay together and kiss and maybe start grinding a little to get more comfortable :S ?!

[Anonymous]

I've been on the other end. I am very thick, and I scare some girls--or at least I did when I was a teen and they were all a little tighter. ;)

I never force myself on girls (although I beg sometimes!), so no harm ever came of it--nobody took me until they were good and ready.

[fleeble]

When I saw this question, it made me think of a penis with a scary face drawn on it or something.

[Asker]

LOL

[Anonymous]

just take it out of his boxers or w/e and start playing with it, you don't have to suck it or anything if you don't want to at first. just get use to seeing it and touching it and maybe you can even give him a handjob

[Asker]

Better to take *off* his boxers, or just take his manly part out and leave them on?

[Opinion Owner]

Nah you can take his boxers off all the way while you're naked too, it'll turn him on a lot to see your body :D