There is some physical limit to which you can stretch your tiny rose button without damaging it. You may be horny as hell, lubed to drown in it, and it still hurts. Some women may be more elastic but for the sake of health, it is not good to overstretch your button till it's tearing apart in pain (this is the golden rule, no pain).
Anyway, you may exercise it gradually, yes (some people go as further as fisting there, go figure...), but consider the risks on the long term (you're just 18, honey, have you ever thought about reaching 40 on diapers for incontinence?).
A '8" very thick' member will not give any ass an easy life.
I know I can take it, I have taken slightly thinner toys with no stretching so it's just a question of if I do need to slightly stretch or if more preparation was needed. I've done my research about that, and the only way there are permanent risks such as a prolapsed anus and incontinence are if you regularly use very large objects like fists. There is no risk with my boyfriend
"do i need to gradually stretch my ass with different sized butt plugs?"
Yes.
Something I found very helpful in that case is to first be very relaxed if you start by thinking omg it will hurt then it will hurt more. What I found helpful is that I stretch little with lube using a toy and or fingers. After when the guy penetration juste gradual portion. Let's say the first 3rd and sex slowly at first until u r comfortable then more and more. If he tries to get it all in and out it will be horrible. Hope it helps
I was very relaxed and horny and I had anal sex before so I was really excited. It had nothing to do with that. He fingered me. We went very very slowly too and he didn't even go all the way in. Looks like I'll need to stretch my ass a little
I think people just have different tolerance to pain. My boyfriend has a much easier time taking my strap on than I do taking his dick, even though mine's bigger. He once managed to take both my dildos O. o
I have a high pain tolerance, like I said my ass ripped and there was blood. It didn't have anything to do with pain, I enjoy pain actually I just don't want to be injured
Does he loosen you up with fingers first? The butt plug might be a good idea.
Yeah but the size gap between fingers and his dick is too big. I'm just wondering from someone who has experienced anal with a very thick dick if they just had to be extra relaxed or if there was stretching that needed to be done
you gave yourself already the answer. you have to work your way slowly up with toys
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I can't tell you if you were relaxed or not but I suppose taking it slow and gradually getting ready for his size with your plugs might be a good idea.
gradually stretchin it sounds like the most logical solution
No problem... u can still have anal sex
He shouldn't put all of his inches inside your asshole:)
Mine is 7 inches, and my partners say i sometimes hurt them too.
he didn't go all of the way in. it's the thickness that was the problem
i see, how about spreading some vaselin to your ass hole? it might hurt less
Lubrication wasn't a problem, I bought thick silicon based lube that's designed for anal sex. The problem is him being too thick for my ass
You don't need to stretch, you've probably taken thicker shits. The insertion needs to be super slow but most importantly come out too at different stages of depth to lubricate the full range of movement in both directions
use a vibrate the more excited you are your rectum will relax. try having an orgasm first see if this helps.
I did that
Use lot of lubrication but to set the record straight
all penis size has to do with the blood flow to the
penis.. You can have a 1 inch soft penis and when
it's hard it can be much bigger , harder ,
We did use lots of silicon based lube, and yeah I'm aware what an erection is. Are you suggesting I have anal when he's soft? Wtf? you're no help
No learn to read i said, a penis can be soft at 1 inch and get bigger due to blood flow causing it to get bigger in size that is what makes a penis bigger see how educated you are.,
Dude I know what an erection is I just don't understand how it's relevant. Your English is terrible, learn to write.
even if you have a big dick you can fuck your so anally with enough lube.
We used so much lube that it was dripping, it has nothing to do with that. It's because his dick is thicker than my ass and it tore.
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