Should I tell my girlfriend I think about her when I jerk off?

[danny11]

We do have sex but sometimes she's not home when its time. I kinda want to tell her but sure what she would think. I dont want to freak her out. Girls how would you take that?

[truthbeknown]

Ok, any woman that thinks a guy who masturbates is weird or something is an idiot. We all do it and there is nothing wrong with it. Any woman who is not flattered by her SO masturbating to them when they are not there is a prude. I say go for and tell her. If she doesn't like it, then she is a prude and not very adventurous in sex. If she does like it, then congratulations, you just found another way to enjoy each other!

[3gmoney3]

As long as it's in the context of other sort of sexy talk, I think she'd probably be flattered. If it's like, "Hey, my little cousin's play is this weekend, want to come?" "Sure, also, I think about you when I jerk off," that might be kind of weird.

[detlef]

Hilarious.

[danny11]

lmfao

[Anonymous]

Yes, absolutely tell her!! As women it is important for us to feel wanted sexually and to know we are enough sexually and that our men are satisfied by us. So by telling her that its her that you think about and fantasize about while masterbating that tells us in a big way that we please you sexually, you find us sexy, and we turn you on. That basically we are doing a damn good job! Lol

[danny11]

thanks

[crystalt70]

Umm... yeah! Send her a pic with the words "I can't keep you off of my mind. See what you do to me? I really wish you were here right now.".

[chris07]

Smooth move haha

[crystalt70]

I'm good like that. Haha! @chris07

[chris07]

Haha remind me to keep my girlfriends away from you lol (don't need my girls stolen :p)

[crystalt70]

Haha! That wouldn't be a problem. I like dick. 😂

[crystalt70]

@chris07

[chris07]

Lol don't know what I like yet haven't been able to try anything ha preedy sure I'm straight though so you wouldn't have to worry about me stealing your guys :D

[crystalt70]

*Looks to the left. Looks to the right. Looks behind.* What guys? 😂😂😂 Maybe I forgot to put the red light out on the porch. They're not lining up around the block. @chris07

[chris07]

Lol I'm confused

[crystalt70]

@chris07 Haha! It means I have no men. I'm single.

[zorro8888]

My spider senses are telling me that you've received those exact lines before haha

[chris07]

Lol single life's great till I wanna get laid haha

[crystalt70]

@zorro8888 Nope. I wish. @chris07 I know the feeling.

[crystalt70]

@zorro8888 I have a very good imagination. I have thought about becoming a writer. I just don't have the patience.

[zorro8888]

Lol maybe you'd have the patience if it was short erotic stories, at least thing would be interesting until you run out of ideas haha

[crystalt70]

@zorro8888 You do have a point...

[danny11]

haha im not sending her a pic of my junk

[crystalt70]

It was supposed to say text, not pic.

[crystalt70]

Send her a pic and text with the words... This is how it should have been. Oops. Lol. If you are having sex with her, why wouldn't you send her a pic? She already knows what it looks like.

[danny11]

Um I don't know i guess cause she already sees it whenever. and I don't know i dont want her showing people.

[crystalt70]

Ahhh... no or not enough trust in the relationship or her. You should be able to trust your girlfriend not to do that. If you can't, then you need to think about whether you should really even be with her. I have NEVER shown anyone those types of pictures when given to me by an ex. That should stay between a couple.

[danny11]

i trust her. I don't know she's like always talking me up to her friends and i always thought girls like talked about stuff like that.

[crystalt70]

Well, she wants her friends to like you so it's only normal that she would "talk you up to her friends". Girls value their friends' opinions about the guy they are seeing. Those friends' opinions can have an impact on whether she stays with a guy or not. If the girl really likes the guy, she will try to make him look really good to her friends so that she gets their approval. Yes, girls will tell each other SOME things about guys and their sex life. Details are usually not something given though. She may say something about his size if it is drastic, how much/less they have sex if it is too little or too much or whether the sex is good or not. That is basically about it.

[crystalt70]

Most girls do NOT want other girls seeing their guy's junk. It's kind of like a territorial thing. If she isn't serious about the guy or is just having casual sex with a guy, she is more likely to show her friends a pic.

[danny11]

cool. I will do it :)

[crystalt70]

Right on! Enjoy! If you want to set ground rules to ensure that you are secure in her not sharing the pics, tell her to please keep it between the two of you.

[crystalt70]

Thanks! I see she was receptive to it. Awesome.

[franklyspeaker]

OMG!!! Tell her!! That is just so nice and meaning you think about her.

[detlef]

Do it, man.

Just be prepared for her not to volunteer what, and whom, SHE thinks about.

[Stacyzee]

That would make me feel good. Like my boyfriend finds me sexy

[danny11]

thanks

[pancakesaremylife]

It's flattering if it's me... :)

[peachblossomluck]

Do it! I would love to hear something like that:)

[danny11]

cool

[Karen_Lucrece]

@Stacyzee is right, I would feel sexy if my boyfriend told me he jerks off to me.

[love2run13]

tell her, see what she says lol

[itsallover]

Tell her, she'd be flattered :)

[DodgersGM]

Yeah, you can tell her if you want. You guys are together and are sexually active; I'm sure she'll be flattered.

[PiuBelloAmante]

Just dont... you dont need to tell her that

[reptocarl]

Tell her then ask if she thinks of you when she does it. You could each masturbate together on the phone

[Alexismk]

To me it would be hot but at the same time i might feel bad he had to do it alone.

[danny11]

going at it alone isn't a big thing. sometimes just gota lol

[Ricky209]

Yes, she will be happy

[flyhigh7]

that's sweet