How long should sex last?

5-10 minutes
Vote A
15-25 minutes
Vote B
35-45 minutes
Vote C
1 hour or more!
Vote D
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  • I would think about 30 minutes at the most... I don't know I tend to separate the individual acts of sex in my mind. Like we might foreplay for about 5-10 minutes, the actual penetration is like another 10 minutes cause seriously how long are you gonna just repeatedly pound her without cumming? She definitely has had an orgasm by then so she would basically be just waiting for me.

    Of course when you get to oral sex that's a different thing cause I can spend like 30 minutes to an hour going down on her giving multiple orgasms with her G-spot etc... sometimes blowjob is like foreplay but to be honest I like cumming in her mouth so I would normally separate it as its own thing.

    Honestly I would just rather have sex several times a day then spend like 2+ hours in one session. Like on the Friday night we might fuck and fall asleep, wakeup in the morning and fuck again, take another nap and after that we make lunch and run some errands, then have more sex and watch a movie afterwards.

    • All of this sounds SO nice ^_^

  • According to Wikipedia,

    "With regard to intravaginal ejaculation latency time, men typically reach orgasm 5–7 minutes after the start of penile-vaginal intercourse, taking into account their desires and those of their partners, but 10 minutes is also a common intravaginal ejaculation latency time."

    I remember that I've read the same article years ago and there was written that it should be 7-13 minutes.
    I think they took average and made it just 10 minutes.
    in my opinion, you should have ~7 minutes.

    (Just intercourse)

    • At* least* ~ 7 minutes

Most Helpful Girls

  • I would like 30 minutes of sex because it takes me a while to orgasm plus <3 the more the merrier.

    But I wouldn't be mad if my boyfriend came then got back in the game in a few minutes.

    If my boyfriend is hitting all the spots though, 20 minutes is fine if I came a lot.

    Non interrupted sex isn't a big deal to me simply because my boyfriend has a short refractory period and we go as long as he can get hard again. So, non interrupted could be about 20-25 minutes but overall we could have sex for 1 hour or 1 1/2, he might have just cum a few times.

  • 45 minutes or even an hour with foreplay. But penetration itself may be no longer than 15 or 20 minutes because I get to dry to be comfortable (even when aroused). So I prefer longer foreplay and get mostly an orgasm already before penetration.

    Sometimes I'm in the mood for having just a quickie and all is over in 10 minutes.

  • how long is a piece of string? it depends what type of sex you are doing... well there is the quickie... the got time to do it... the morning shift before work... the evening... the lunchtime job... so with all of these you need to factor in time... and that is what will make the difference on when you need to cum... :))

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  • As long as possible.

  • 25 to 30 minutes... without the foreplay of course...

  • who the hell has sex for 5-10mins? -.-

    • A lot of people.

    • People with weak to average stamina lol.

    • people always answer my rhetorical questions lol.

  • Hour or more, as long as it can! I never want it to be over <3

    • I can go 1 1/2 hours without nutting! Straight up pounding you! Would you like that?

    • But are you surrrrre about that?

  • Including foreplay, ideally it should be between 20-30 minutes

    • No foreplay, just fucking

    • At least 4 hours if its a weekend. And an hour whenever

    • 10 min max intercourse

  • With foreplay around 40 min - 1 hour.
    Without foreplay 20-30 mins.

  • I had the good fortune or misfortune a few years ago to have a woman that was hot.. Every part of her was hot... Too much woman, and I was quick to be out of my mind

  • 1 hour or more, is not just penetration, all the combo is included

  • regular sex should last a good 30 minutes to 1 hour. quickies less than 20 minutes usually. if you bust in under 10 minutes you need to work on that.

  • I voted b not including foreplay :)

    • I barely qualified lol

  • I'd say 15-30 minutes would be a decent amount of time.

  • 2 hours because romance and foreplay

  • well last time I remembered doing it we went at it all night long haha but normally 10 minutes max

  • Get viagra weekender and go for 36 hours! If your erection should last more than 4 hours Call up a friend! and brag about it

    • Yeah that's not as fun as I thought it would be... I have done that with Levitra and man it was like my dick just wouldn't go down... after a while I was just kinda numb and fucking her for her own pleasure.

  • purely sex- minimum 30 minutes.

  • 15 to 25 minutes penetrative sex. Foreplay as much as both partners want

  • At least 6 hours xD

  • What makes the couple comfortable it's not a race or something to get time

  • I spend like an hour on foreplay and maybe 10-15 minutes on sex and she's completely satisfied. Foreplay is 90% of it for a woman, you take care of her then and you don't have to work hard at all during actual intercourse to please her or make her cum. If you take too long with actual sex, women WILL get bored, even with different positions. However, intimate foreplay that gradually progresses is never boring for a woman.

    • "Foreplay is 90% of it for a woman" many girls disagree