Why are Guys quicker to have an orgasm?

Why do guys finish faster than women? Why is it easier for them to have an orgasm? Is it true that when a guy is drunk he lastes more?
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Wow I didn't know this thanks for the info 👌 & no its not sexond but i would like for him to at least wait for me you know
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  • There are some aspects, the most important one is that we are oposite to women, so in every aspect we are the oposite, we take less to get exited, we last less and our orgasm last less. Women need more time, their orgasm last long and they can even have multiple ones.

    If we have a bad habit of masturbation in the wrong way we develop an conditioned reflex thats make us come faster because most of men masturbate to archive climax as soon as posible (most of times because we where afraid of being caugth when kids).

    There is a muscle that is called PC and this one is the main caracter in the eyaculation, depending of how developed and how we control it we can control the eyeculation more or less depending on the practice, and with time we can even control when we come.

    But is a hard thing, so dont judge because this has to be learned and needs to be work, normaly people think of sex as something that comes alone and we are good or bad in bed.

    Before that think in how much effort have you put in being better in sex. Still is the man job to be a good lover.

    • I know the theory about PC muscle training, do you know anybody that can actually control their ejaculation?

    • Thanks for the MHQ

    • See I understand, & I agree guys get turned on so quick & us girls take more time. I just dont understand why! Like is there something a man can do to last longer?

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  • Think of it scientifically: to procreate, the man NEEDS to orgasm. Basically, a woman's orgasm is designed to help with that process when he is taking too long (vaginal wall contractions, an extra release of lubricants, sometimes other physical reactions that trigger a release of endorphins in the man's mind when he sees or hears them). Basically, to procreate, the female orgasm is less necessary.
    **I do want to express the fact that just because it isn't necessary for procreation does not mean it is unnecessary for sexual gratification. Men should still spend the extra time to give her her orgasm.

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  • For the drunk thing - the opposite is true.

    Because men are pretty simple when it comes to sex - women are physically more complex.

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  • It depends on how impulsive the guy is. As for the drunk thing, it really depends. There's such a term called "whiskey dick" for example which is when the guy can't get an erection due to the consumption of alcohol for example.

    • Then it might be true But it won't be a good thing right?

    • If you're talking about the alcohol, not getting an erection means the sex won't really be happening. If you're talking about the guy being impulsive then no it won't be a good thing if you want the sex to last because it'll be a "race to the finish" for him and he'll just be a "minute man."

    • I meant the alcohol & about being impulsive thats exatly what i dont want

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  • Almost everything on this site is explained in cave man's terms, so maybe the current male population was naturally selected, those who managed to plant the seed quick before the competition could catch/see them are our fathers...

    • About the drunk part, for me it makes the best love session when I and the girl had a glass of wine. Why make love with some drunk guy? How can he express it to you? I would say it isn't important what performance drunk guys put out there ( I expect a lousy one ).

    • Yeah. Thats what I meant not dunk to the point where he can't even walk or somethin

  • Why? Because their body is different than yours that's all. We don't have the same level of hormones, the same sensitivity, etc.

  • I have read that sometimes drinking actually makes a guy be barely able to get it up and erect in the first place.

  • well for you the women you don't want to be laying there for about an hour do you thats why us guys have to finish quick because it just gets boring humping for an hour.

  • Libido of guys is like you burning a wood That is it easily get fire and exhausted very soon... But libido of girl is like coal it takes time to catch fire and once catches fire lasts for longer period..

  • it just the way it is lol

  • Guys can get aroused in a few seconds, girls often need at least 5 minutes of foreplay, during the foreplay you should play with guy, too, because he can loose boner if there is no interaction for him. So when you start, he has already 5 minutes of aroused interaction, and you only begin.

    Second, girls have much stronger orgasms than guys, and I think that it takes more time to build stronger female orgasm, than weaker male.

    Third, it can come from nature, male should fertilize female and other male can interrupt him (in natural fight for female) so the male should finish as soon as possible. We have developed a lot since then, but our body is still designed in many ways for the wild nature more than enjoying and civilised world.

    • Agree with interruption part, however I read about a study of female and male orgasm, I think it was done back in the 1920s, they measured the number and intensity of the muscle contraction in the anus for both guys and girls. The result? Both guys and girls have the same amount of contraction, same frequency, duration and intensity. However there two groups, these are not related to sex, so guys and girls can be found in both groups. One group has lower frequency and smaller duration and one group has higher frequency and longer duration.

    • Yes, but they probably measured clitoral orgasm, which strength is comparable to male orgasm. Most girls can also reach it within 3-5 minutes, same as guys. Their advantage is the fact they can repeat it more times. But I spoke about vaginal or G-spot orgasm.

    • Isn't clitoral orgasm the only orgasm the girls can actually have? My knowledge of female anatomy is limited at best, but I had the impression they are still searching for the G-spot. And there are studies that show that deep vaginal penetration does not lead to orgasm, better rub the clit...

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  • we have more to work with. ha

    • & why is that? Not every girl is the same tho

    • u dont know why we have more to work with? we have dicks and you have pussies. and its easier to grab a dick and stroke it up and down rather than to finger your tiny pussy. .

    • and when im drunk its hard to focus without doing stupid things. and get my dick up and cum.. so no


  • Because it always about them don't care
    if you cum or not

  • Yes its truth if a guy drinks he lasts more

  • its just how nature has made us men :-/

  • It depends on a guy. I last more than many girls. I make my partners cum 2 or 3 times before i even cum only once!

  • In my opinion. Like i did. Guys always hold his pleasure to make sure his women finish first.

  • No we aren't quick i am last to 30 min

  • It has something to do with uplift I honestly don't know why. Maybe because spreading sperm is really important to our existence.
    Alcohol interferes with arousal.

  • We are not quicker. It's just that woman are slow and retarded.

    • Lmao wow

  • We evolved to cum as quickly as possible and as often as possible

  • Better question: "Why are women so complicated?" :P

    • I don't think im complicated but i would like to know 💁

    • Compared to a guy you are lol With girls for her to reach orgasm she has to relax, be in the moment then the clit has to be properly stimulated. If she's not a virgin then you can try fingering and trying to give her the g-spot orgasm which isn't hard if you know what you're doing but if you can't find it then you're wasting time. A guy just needs to stroke the shaft but with girls it's all about finding the erogenous zones.

    • Yes but if men know this then why can't they wait for the girl?

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