Girls, can you orgasm vaginally, from regular penetrative sex?

Question

Often it is said that most women can't orgasm vaginally or can't orgasm from penetrative sex without extra clitoral stimlulation, and to me it seems odd that our species would have evolved in a way in which orgasm isn't possible for women through regular sex. (So I'm wondering if it is actually just a minority that can't.)

So for those of you who are sexually experienced and have been with a man with endurance (so that you know it's not matter of not orgasming simply because it was too short), have you ever had a vaginal orgasm from regular penetration?

If you haven't had sex many times or you've generally only had sex with guys who have premature ejaculation issues, then vote C.

detlef · Accepted Answer

Well to be clear, most girls can come from vaginal fucking alone IF the boy's pelvis is also grinding over her clit. Like in a modified missionary where the boy is on top and riding very high up over the girl's pelvis. Then she's getting both clit and cunt stimulated at once, but the only thing rubbing her clit is the area of the guy's pelvis above his cock. This may well be the way humans are primarily made to fuck since it's the likeliest to result in simultaneous orgasms (for a lot of reasons).

But you can also make a girl come from vaginal alone WITHOUT rubbing in that way, IF she's been sufficiently stimulated before penetration. With my girlfriend I'll make her come with my mouth at least once or twice, then fuck the pussy, and she'll come with little effort, even though neither of us is actually touching the clit.

In terms of percentage I've fucked 6 girls and two could come vaginally the ways I've described, so I'd guess--and it's only an educated guess--that about a third of girls have the ability to come from penetration alone in one form or another. If we were talking penetration with a vibrator the percentage might be higher. :)

Good question, man.

Ihav2fart · Accepted Answer

A lot of females have trouble orgasming through vaginal stimulation alone.

sweetsinner · Accepted Answer

Haven't had sex but I have been able to just by fingering which is still penetration. It feels different but better than clitoral orgasms in my opinion. But what feels tons better is stimulating both at the same time. Finding the g-spot seems to be a controversial topic, usually every girl has one but some are a lot less sensative than others so it feels like they don't have one. only about 25% of women consistently orgasm through vaginal sex. That being said penis size doesn't seem to be the issue.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I can't orgasm from penetration. He has to be doing other things to get me off.

I orgasm more from his reactions. If he's not into it I won't orgasm even if he's pounding me really good

It's always nice to be kissed and talked to during sex.

I can't get an orgasm from doggystyle. I feel nothing. And he's like 7 inches so length is not the problem. He's also thick. I just need a lot more intimacy to get off.

Bandgal · Accepted Answer

Our species didn't evolve in a way where women could orgasm through penetration alone because it's not necessary for reproduction. I guy needs to orgasm because then he would ejacualte semen but with a woman, an egg is always released and it isn't dependent on us orgasming for it to be fertilized

RachelP02 · Answer

My best orgasms come from penetration. Clit stim is great but it's not quite as incredible!

Candy_Girl · Answer

yeah there are generally 4 types of orgasms, and vaginal is one of them, usually it takes a larger dick to achieve that orgasm, but it also depends on the depth of the vagina (vaginal orgasm is not to be mistaken for G-spot orgasm which can be achieved with a smaller dick)

Bedlington · Answer

i seem to orgasm every time from regular penetrative sex and i have been known to squart a little too

itsallover · Answer

Yeah, I have. But I needed some build up beforehand.

MickyMouse1231 · Answer

I get off fairly easily to be honest both from penetration and clitoral stimulation

PrettyBama · Answer

I can. Feels better than a clitoral orgasm but doesn't last as long.

PippiL · Answer

I can come from either clitoral stimulation or a combination of clitoral and vaginal stimulation. They're different types of orgasms. But I can't come from vaginal stimulation alone.

RedLiquor · Answer

I think it's easier for me to orgasm from penetration vs clitoral stimulation, honestly. Or, maybe not easier but quicker. It takes quite the build up for me to orgasm from clitoral stimulation but as soon as a guy gets going inside of me, I can orgasm pretty quickly. It's a nicer feeling than clitoral stimulation too, being filled up

TheButterfly · Answer

Im a virgin but i can orgam through penetration and clitoral stimulation quickly. And the clitorous actually wraps around the opening so technically orgasming from penetration is still clitoral orgasms.

bubbletrouble · Answer

Yeah I can

JennaSmith · Answer

Yeah, I can

tenofthepeaks · Answer

most cannot. i dont get you saying its a lie.

Anonymous · Answer

I have had a vaginal orgasm from regular penetrative sex.

Anonymous · Answer

I can very rarely cum when a guy goes down on me or plays with my clit, even with fingers inserted. I can usually only cum from penetrative sex with a penis, but it needs to be in deep and I need to feel his body rubbing against the general area where my clitoris is, in a less direct way a finger would stimulate it ( as for penetration forget straight in out in out in out motion, think more about a wave motion). It's easier for me to control that motion on top, but I can wriggle my way to an even better orgasm under a guy by also motioning. My boyfriend found the right way without even me telling him and he mentioned he was surprised at how close he needs to be for me to come. Everyone is different though, that's just how it works for me :)