If you can see a bulge sometimes even when a guy is soft, does that mean he's big?

If you can sometimes see a bulge is a guys pants even if he isn't hard, does that mean he's big?
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I guess I should clarify, does it mean he has big balls OR penis lol
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  • As has been stated a number of times... But I don't think a lot of women really get it... So I'll break it down for you ;)
    The difference between a shower and a grower is... "Showers" pretty much have what they have on the surface... In other words when he becomes erect, he is not going to become much larger in lenth or circumference than when he is in a flaccid state...
    While growers on the other hand do not look to be much in a flaccid state, but when fully engorged can be much larger then a shower.
    My point is that you cannot tell actual size from a bulge in someone's pants, or Judge from someone's flaccid State.

    • Well based off what he's said he's a grower

    • Still, the only way to know the size of a mans package is to unwrap it ;)

  • Not necessarily. It's just like cleavage; it depends on how much you squish it up.

    • Oh ok, that's pretty cool lol

Most Helpful Girls

  • Either he's big or it's placed in a weird spot making it look like that. Which sucks for the guy because then they would have to fix that in front of people or try to find a place to do it.

  • Maybe, maybe not. He could be a "shower" rather than a "grower."

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  • Why do you care?

    • Curiosity

    • Okay, no a bulge doesn't mean he's big, you realize a bulge includes the balls as well, so I'm sure most of the bulge are the family jewels.

    • Well yeah, I guess I should clarify, does it possibly mean he has big balls lol

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  • Doesn#t mean a thing - there are "growers" and "showers" - For istance I have a 9 inch penis and I#m a "Grower" so it doesn#t get big unless I#m hard. Other guys what you see is what you get as they are "showers" - so it won#t get much harder than what you can see, which if you#re guessing from looking at his bulge won't tell you much.

  • Or in my case, I am average big, but have big balls lol, I sometimes have a bulge. I thinks it's the reason why I'm so friggin horns the whole time.

  • Probably means his pants are too tight.

  • Big? Woops... lemme just get out of this section -_-

  • Neither. It mean's he's partially hard. Or wearing the tightest pants you have ever scene.

  • Mine is like an ambush predator :P

  • Sometimes its the pants !

  • He could be a shower, but not a grower.

    • Based off things he's said I doubt it lol

    • well... there's only one way to find out for sure.

  • Not always but sometimes

  • It also directly relates to the size pants he's wearing...

  • Not always. Some guys are growers and still have large erect penis

  • Not necessarily. I think it's the swelling that counts. So it can be big soft but not get much bigger. Or it can be smaller and swell huge. You'll just have to find out the "hard way" :D I couldn't help it

  • I don't have a bulge when soft AND I'm below average when hard (even though I grow almost 4 times my flaccid size when hard)...

    I was screwed twice by life. I'm still a virgin because of it...

  • what do you even mena?

    • A bulge, you can see an outline in his shorts

  • The difference between erect size and flaccid size varies widely between people, dependent on a variety of factors. Don't assume anything. If this is a partner or a potential partner, you'll probably find out anyway. If not, stop wondering.

  • It means he's probably happy to see you and size fluctuates A LOT based on arousal.

  • yes he is big... mostly bulge dont even appear without erection.