Why do girls care SO MUCH about a guy's "size?"

[Anonymous]

EVERYONE DENIES that girls care about "size"--it's more about how a guy uses his member, whether he can communicate with the girl and stimulate her in more than one way, etc. BUT WHY THEN are SO MANY GIRLS on here responding to those questions about size, saying they prefer bigger? Come on already, can a man help what he's born with? Girls I'm average--does that disgust you? Would you run away screaming? I'm starting to feel like you would.

[EmberlyMai]

Uh, you're confused because you're not making sense. First you said "EVERYONE DENIES that girls care about "size" but then you say "SO MANY GIRLS on here prefer bigger." Both can't be true. Obviously it's the second.

Personally, I do prefer large d!cks because they give me more physical pleasure. I don't reject average guys, but the sex won't be quite as good (all other things being equal). It's not a choice I make, it's just the way my body works. So don't take the tone with us that there's something wrong with my body.

[cheerclover27]

I think a lot of girls say they prefer bigger, but they would be fine with average size also. When it comes down to it, for me, I think the feelings you have for the person trumps the size down there (;

[aisleire]

Can girls help having small boobs or flat asses? Do men still prefer women with large breasts and asses? Yeah. Can men help having small d***s? Do women still prefer larger? Yeah. Get over it.

[armyant]

Uh, breasts and asses can be augmented with implants. Surgically enlarging a penis, however, reduces erection quality and carries a risk of permanent erectile dysfunction and sterility. So there is no equivalence.

[Asker]

I agree with armyant. And I can love a woman with smaller breasts and butt. What's your point?

[aisleire]

And how many girls really want to have to get implants for men to be attracted to them? And how many can afford it? All of this all depends on preference anyway but I'd rather not hear guys bitch about the size of their penis. If you're with a woman who REALLY is in love with you, she won't care whether or not you have a micro penis or a pet snake.

[armyant]

The point is that the answer to your question "Can girls help having small boobs or flat asses?" is yes, while the answer to the question "Can men help having small d***s?" is no, so all you're really doing is highlighting the fact that women have options and men don't. And you can be sure that if a reliable method existed to enlarge a penis while retaining its full functionality, it would be very popular. So essentially men are willing to improve themselves for women, but the reverse is false

[godoggo]

Excuse my friend armyant, he isn't as logical as he thinks he is. ;) Anyway, you can't just flatly say women prefer larger. There is an upper limit to what is desirable.

[Jocko]

You said it, they're saying they prefer bigger,They're not saying well he's not a certain size so I dumped him til I found a guy that measured up. Its no different than a guy saying he prefers a girl with bigger breasts or a bigger butt. If they're saying well Ill only date and sleep with a guy who's 9+ than I can see the outrage but preference is preference. I'm sure we'd all prefer to not go to work or school but we go there anyways.

[OutOfMyElement43]

Size does matter; not length but girth. Girls I sleep with always tell me I'm big. I played football in high school. I've been naked with other guys in a locker room. I know I'm not "big." It used to p*ss me off when girls said this. As a girl explained it too me once, it's not the length; it's girth that really makes sex feel good. I was happy with that explanation, but, maybe, I just want to believe it. LOL

[Asker]

OK, but what if a guy has neither an impressive girth OR length to write home about? (Not that you'd be writing home about this topic...)

[OutOfMyElement43]

I say don't worry about it. God gave you what he did! I don't really know that I have impressive girth? Girls may just tell you stuff, true or not. If you get compliments, you've done well. You don't have to be well endowed to please a girl. Most of the stuff that counts happens before intercourse anyway.

[greeneyedgal]

I think they just want to answer the questions posed by the question askers. I think that it's safe to say that most of us don't care about his size but how well he uses it.

[bitesizedonut]

*Runs away screaming in disgust*

D:

[jokeslinger802b]

very simple < different sized keys for different sized locks, too little or big won't open the box.

[bitesizedonut]

Perfect :D

[godoggo]

Yep.