Why am I so horny all the time?

This probably seems really dirty... but I haven't been in a relationship for ages and haven't had sex in a year. I can't stop thinking about it and yes I masturbate but obviously I'm not getting the same out of it as I would body on body contact, Grrrr

Is there something wrong with me? I was even going to buy some porno's...

It doesn't help that I like a guy I've never spoken to and can't stop thinking about him.

Do younger girls think about sex this much or is it that I'm in my 'Prime'?

why am I so horny
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Like most people, and women in particular, you seem to worry too much about wanting sex...EVERYBODY DOES...unless they are dead and buried. Masturbation helps relieve the immediate 'tension' but does not replace the warm body you really want.

    You simply must get out and try to meet people, either through your work contacts or becomed active in some kinds of social activity where you can meet men your age and have the same interests (Screwing included) Believe me, most, or at least many women I know feel the same way you do.

    Don't panic, but don't stand still and do nothing...or nothing will happen for you.

  • That's cool! Where were all the girls that thought about sex all day when I was single? How did this all day thinking about sex happen? Can you transfer this to another person? I am trying to get my wife to think about sex...ANYTIME...Then we can progress to all the time ;-) lol

    Seriously, enjoy it while it lasts. Unfortunately, my experience is that it doesn't last forever - At least for women. I have been married for 10+ years and I am still the same as day one! I think it's natures cruel joke on married people. Desires differ at different times and it's up to us to manage them.

    • I'm guessing cos maybe I've hit 30 I'm at my sexual peak but it isn't so fun when you're single.! Tease your wife a bit, massage her, use some foreplay (that is if you aren't already)? Woman love that a man wants to please them and not just dive straight in there. (sorry you weren't the one asking for advice here)! But me? There's nothing I can do. The dildo don't cut it. I need to feel some skin and hear some breathing etc, the plastic don't do that....

    • Hey, I'm 23 and love sex even when I've had it I want more of my fella he thinks he's a peice of meat 😂 anyway if I'm not having sex I'm usually playing with myself I watch porn up to 8 times a day haha

Most Helpful Girls

  • You are in your prime you have hit your sexual peak. I know I never thought about sex as much as I do now that I am in my thirties. There is noting wrong with you at all. Most men want the younger women if they only knew what we women in our thirties were like =).

  • I think you are in your prime...it happened to my sister who is in your same age group. we talk about everything and she told me that she is horny all the time. her hubby was loving it...then she had a hysterectomy (spelling?) and it all went away.

  • I think anyone who hasn't had sex in a year would be that way you just need someone to knock the dust off ! I'm 31 and I'm horny a lot to though it seems like the more I get the more I want must be in our prime

    • Yeah it just sucks I don't have a man. It doesn't help I'm single mum, I doubt any guy wants a woman with a baby, really.... : (

    • Hey don't go too hard on yourself..there are plenty of men who would date a single mom

    • I AM A SINGLE MOM OF 4 AND I GET HIT ON ALL THE TIME SO You SHOULDN'T THINK THAT WAY HELL, THEY GUY THAT ANSWERED BELOW ME WILL KNOCK THE DUST OFF EVEN IF YOU'RE ON YOUR PERIOD LOL JK BUT REALLY HE WILL

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  • You are perfectly normal. Horny and normal. Perhaps buy some toys?

  • I'm 18 and sex is something I crave all day, everyday. It's definitely not just you :|

  • You're fine, but you probably should be dating; if men aren't tumbling from the sky, you'll have to go get one.

  • all sounds good to me... im 50 now and love wanking over porn.

  • It's human nature, you're very healthy and active, means you have a good metabolism and your hormones are ok

  • I love sex and I am 40...have you ever thought about a toy?

    • Honestly, yes I did 3 times in a row this morning and still not satisfied and I really don't want a plastic thing up there, I want the real thing. See, I must've been a man in a previous life

    • Message me if you would like to chat..I am honestly horny all day long and if its that time of the month for some reason I am more attracted...women seem hornier then

  • you noe what that means take out the toys! hahaha

  • im 14 and i think about it

  • I wouldn't worry about it. I thought by 50, I'd be rid of the hormonal urges, but they're here just as stron as before. I feel like a disgusting dirty old man. I hate it. Absolutely hate it that at a dignified age, I feel like this.

    Yuck!

  • You're in the height of your sexual peak, so it's understandable.. I am single and in my mid twenties, if you ever want to relieve some stress... (I can lie and say I'm a virgin too..) lol.

    • Cute Mr Anonymous.. : )

    • Thanks! It's totally normal. I am horny all the time myself. Not to the point that it's dangerous or I have compulsions that I can't control.. You sound like a passionate person who enjoys personal contact. I am the same way. I am very affectionate and enjoy cuddling, etc.. The interpersonal body contact of sex is amazing.

    • Stop it you're making me horny haha : ) But you are a guy, guys are meant to be horny all the time right? Even if I actually get to talk to the guy that I like and he likes me, It would be hard to stop myself from jumping him... I said to myself that when I meet someone I'm not having sex straight away, gotta have some self respect you know? And I want him to know that I'm not that easy but the poor guy will cop it big time when I am finally let loose lol! Hopefully he won't complain!