What to do while giving a guy head?

So you are giving your man head. When he is getting to the point do you have to swallow or can you take your mouth off and finish it with your hand? The whole thought of having to swallow just gags me? Or do I just need to stop gagging?


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    Here are some tips:

    1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

    2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

    3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

    4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

    5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

    6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

    7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

    8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

    9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.

    10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

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What Guys Said 6

  • If I were you'd I'd definitely not swallow! Cum wasn't made for swallowing plus you can get STD's. It was made for giving babies. If you MUST give head, then make sure to get it out of your mouth before he starts oozing precum. Finish him off by hand and have him cum in a tissue. Squirting on your face or boobies sounds gross to me and I don't see how any girl can like that. Because she's being used. If a guy tells you, like omg swallow it cause most girls do. That's bullshit. That's treating a girl like crap to expect her to swallow his cum. He's definitely not long-lasting boyfriend material because getting a blowjob is more important to him than you are. To him it's not much more than just getting his dick sucked by a girl and after he cums he thinks less of her.

  • Everyone is different. What works for one person doesn't mean its going to work for another. Some girls are great at swallowing and others just can't do it. There's no shame in that, though. If you really want your guy to have a great finish, what are some other ways you can keep it exciting instead of swallowing? Let him shoot off on your chest, or maybe your face. Watch a few nasty vids and get some ideas. You can still be nasty without doing things you don't want to do. Have fun, but don't make yourself do what you don't want to.

  • Its all up to you. Imo don't swallow it if you don't want to. He shouldn't care too much, unless he's like some porn star. At least he's getting head

  • I'll say this.and I know I'm a guy, so I'm partial to getting the job finished with swallowing.but -

    first of all, you can train yourself past the whole gag reflex thing. Most of the fear is over the taste, and the question is whether or not you want to over come it or not. If oral sex is something you want to be considered great at.then the gag reflex is something you will have to get past eventually anyway. As for swallowing, we can't make you swallow.and if you are going to be more energetic and enthusiastic about finishing the guy off with your hand.chances are that he will end up enjoying it that way more. We can usually make out the grossed out faces the girls make when they don't want to be doing what they are doing anyway. It can ruin a mood just as quick as anything.

  • Well, look at it this way, if your guy was licking and sucking on your clit and just before you are about to cum he stops and starts rubbing it with his fingers, is it ok with you?

    Yes, the cum in your mouth is a big difference but you don't have to swallow.


What Girls Said 3

  • It takes awhile to get used to, but it is better for the guy if you swallow. But if you're not comfortable with it and it really makes you feel sick, then don't do it. If the guy has a big problem with it, he's probably a jerk. A good guy will understand if you just don't feel like you can do it. He may still want you to, but he won't get upset.

  • Lol I agree w. You swallowing kinda is gross to me, won't lie, so make him cum in a different place.

  • If you really want to swallow go for it...Most guys love for a girl to swallow it but most guys will be ok with jacking off on your boobs or stomach or even your face. If your biggest fear is the taste it is easily overcome by the thought that you are giving your man what he wants and you can keep in mind that you are taking in protein and vitamins(for whoever said it wasn't meant to be swallowed it won't hurt you) and so everyone knows I'm a woman and yes I swallow. If you haven't been with your man long enough to know his past or you guys haven't gone to be tested for STDs especially HIV or AIDS then swallowing isn't a good idea neither is giving head with no condom(and that thought makes me gag...Its like sucking on a wet balloon). I hope that helps.