Do guys care a lot if a girl is a virgin?

Do guys care a lot if a girl is a virgin? Like there are these guys I know who said that they would rather have a slutty girl than a girl who is a virgin because they wouldn't want to teach her anything, and have her just know. Does virginity/ lack of matter that much?
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  • ovcourse guys care if a girls a virgin. nothing can be more important in picking out a girl that you are seriouse about. if the girls been passed around, shes no good so you might as well use her than kick her to the curb, just being brutally honest, if i guy says otherwise hes lieing. simple answer from the alpha male prespective is that slutty girls are very insecure and make for easy pray for the male preditor. the male will take full advantage of the situation and and use her for all shes got, in the back of his mind knowing that its all shes good for, and does not like this feeling. the male would trade his slut for anything better in the drop of a dime even for another slut thats more attractive. on a subconscience level, men do not like these girls at all and can not respect them, because these whores odviousley dont respect themselves. no real man can ever be truely happy with someone elses leftovers, it disgusts them. the social pressures that make it cool for girls to be sluts and men to be"players", is also a factor. there is nothing more attractive than a pretty girl that sees above this. the most valuebal thing in this world is also the rarest thing; a beautiful girl with her cherry, a girl that knows this fact. these girls are diamonds amongst all the slutty pebbles. keeping your value for the perfect man, who puts a meaningfull ring on it is the most attractive, rewarding and beneficial thing a girl can do.

    • I mean, I've seen crap on here severally but this? This just gives "CRAP" a whole new meaning... I'm a virgin and I'm not even half this naive... wow!!! Mehn, you are not really the smartest person... are you even a virgin? Hey, I think it's your body and you feel free to do whatever with it... you want want be be virgin, sure... you don't? No problem... no one iz gonna hate you for it. This "virginity" thing is mostly overrated a just cuz you're a virgin doesn't actually make you a better person than the girl that just had sex... but don't listen to this douche pls... some guys like apples, others like pineapples... but here's a shocker, MOST GUYS DON'T CARE!!! He just told you what he thinks from his naive point of view which is fine but most of the guys that "think" they prefer virgins aren't even virgins but we'll never know, will we? Pls do what you want... it's not like if you have sex, your vagina iz gonna be spoilt or something... it's still the very same thing...

  • Guys who just want slutty girls, want them because they're easy and will have sex with the guy. If you're a virgin, then obviously you are looking for a guy different then that. You don't want a guy who is just looking for sex. I think that's great that you're still a virgin. Hold onto it until you're ready. It's not a bad thing all! It's a great thing!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Guys can be shady at times, because if the girl is easy, they know that they will have sex on the dot. But a virgin is pure, and I don't think many guys realize that. Being a virgin, is a good thing, because wen you do find the one, then you can share that gift with them. So what! It's a group of guys, but not every guy, just keep your eye out. Look for someone that loves you for you and not what you've done, or what you haven't done.

    • So if I'm a convicted sex offender who raped children and adults it should be overlooked only because you love me?

  • No virginity status doesn't matter at all. The only way that it would matter is if your partner has a religious belief and wants to save themselves for marriage and wants you to do the same.

    Guys who tell you that they don't want to waste time 'teaching' a virgin things are full of crap. There is nothing to teach. People get better at sex with experience, sure. But sex is natural and it's not difficult to figure out at all.

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  • A lot of guys like slutty girls, because guys are shallow, and a lot of guys probably want sex, and being a virgin means your special, then again there are guys that like virgins. Because they want to take it away from them, or they are a virgin too

  • After few virgin relationship. NOT anymore

    Virgin girl very attach.

    virgin girl don't know what they doing

    virgin girl will alway bring you home to show her daddy. (which is scary)

    virgin girl will make you feel guilty

  • In Thailand ,we have little rule that say you cannot have s*x before

    you married.

    Imagine,your mother of your son not made herself as it should be.

    It's like C*urtesan as your wife.and if you keep until you engage with

    your real sweetheart,is it better?

  • It depends. Yes, virginity is very important to some guys, especially to the serious ones, who really want a serious relationship (that is, to marry you). Such a guy will ALWAYS love you a LOT more if he was / is / will be your first man. There's just something special and unexplainable, like love, but I would definitely say that you will be more loved and appreciated if you end up marrying the guy that you slept with for the first time.

    And, very important, be very careful when you take advice on this from other girls. To a girl, a man's virginity counts a LOT LESS than a woman's virginity to a man. So be careful, man and wome ARE VERY DIFFERENT in this regard.