Guys, do you have to stroke your dick to stay hard before penetration or is the sight of your partner enough to keep you hard?

[Anonymous]

I find my dick going straight to Softville right before penetration. I have to either stroke it or get a bj to get it back up. Weird part is, it stays hard when I give oral lol. So my question is, do you other men have to stroke your dick to keep it hard prior to penetration or is it already rock hard from the sight of your girlfriend with no need for further stimulation? There might be a possibility I'm suffering from performance anxiety or porn-induced ED or both.

[3gmoney3]

I often find that during foreplay I'm rock hard, but when I get really focused on getting my girlfriend off I tend to go a little soft. It's not that I'm not turned on, but it's more that my mind has become somewhat goal oriented. And a lot of times, I'll get hard with the anticipation of messing around, then soft when I'm waiting for other things to happen first, then hard again as foreplay starts, so by the time it actually gets to penetration I've had and lost multiple erections. At that point, I think my dick is just skeptical and needs a little encouragement.

[EarthToKepler]

Porn could be the culprit.. When I use to watch porn I had a very hard time maintaining an erection

Stopped watching porn.. Now I could leave it for hours before It goes to softvile

[Asker]

yeah might be it

[Anonymous]

I'd try to wean off fapping to porn for a while and also doing some relaxation exercises. I've never been with a guy who regularly needed to stroke before penetration - usually only if we had been drinking too much.

At your age, I'd worry about my blood flow and all that if the mental changes didn't do the trick. Erection issues - especially in young guys - can signal problems with overall health. But don't fret. Just try to make some changes and see what happens before getting too worried.

[Anonymous]

my ex had to stroke it to keep it hard unless we went a week without sex or it was morning wood.

[Theguyoverthere]

For me I would only get that if I had a lot of sex and it was yet... another session the same day. So in my case it'd mean I'd just run out from doing it that much that day/night.

[MattDamonAndFriends]

When I have a lot of sex
In a rather short period of time
It happens for a a minute or so than its back, I'd suggest no masterbating, only get a release when you are with your girlfriend it feels ten times better that way

[Anonymous]

I start getting hard whenever I play with her boobs and usually get as hard as I could get moments before sticking it in.

[Anonymous]

The funny thing about me is that I don't like stroking my dick when I'm having sex. I'd rather the girl do it lol. So if I start getting soft I'll either tell her to stroke it or grab her hand and guide it to me dick.

[Opinion Owner]

*my dick.

[Asker]

Yeah I hate stroking it too. But she just strokes it way too hard. And for some reason, I never have lube nearby when I'm soft lol

[fulloflife]

Very dominant aren't u? 😉

[Opinion Owner]

Let her give you some head then. Just a little bit. To get your dick nice and moist. At fulloflife, probably a little of both dominant and submissive.