I really need to stop being a pervert. Help?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I am really disappointed with myself. Among me and my friends I am known as the sensible one. Last one you would expect to make a sex joke and it was just late for my hormones to kick in every one said they would I blew it off and forgot what they said. Well they did kick in very late but very hard. Now I can't stop fantasizing I am thinking with the wrong head more than my real head I tried to ignore it but now it has gotten so out of control. Almost every day actually now every day whenever I have the ability to do 1 more multitask I think I fantasize. Its disturbing that I don't have control over my own thoughts I really think that my hormones effect me more than any one else because they came so late and its insane. I don't know much more I can emphasize without it sounding exaggerated I feel like a disgrace to my family with these thoughts they keep coming back every time I change the state of my mind it keeps coming back. Right now as I type I am trying so hard not to detail my fantasies I am trying so hard not to sound perverted. That is why I am cutting this question short because if I continue I will want to detail. Please I don't want to change like this I want to still be the sensible one and forget all of the people that think its okay to think like this because now you can't fool me I know I am being a pervert so please how do I change my mind for good?

[GIntrovert]

I'm exact the same. It's like trying not to think about food while you are starving. I've learn to live with it and accept that I have no control over it. What counts is that I can still think rational, and control my actions. I've manage to always do what I thought was right, even with my imagination going wild in my head.

This is who you are, don't do what I did, and start hating yourself. Because as you get older, you will find that everyone who is not asexual, has had the exact same thoughts that has cross your mind, maybe not as often, but they do.

[alaric]

lol... stop killing yourself by splitting yourself...

you are coming of age that's all.. go and experience everything then you wouldn't be that curious no more.. That curiosity and man nature is causing all schism within you.

[Anonymous]

I think about sex all the time.

There's a difference between thinking perverted things, and doing them. Let yourself think about it for goodness sake or you're going to think about it even more!

[Mahdi123]

can you help me with this, I'm a 14 old boy but I can't stop being a pervert, I started to watch inappropriate stuff. please help me.

[MrTinker]

Nothing can not be controlled, you have to have the will to stop doing whatever it might be, and grow in strength to protect the one you love.

[Anonymous]

ive tried, nothing really helps. just b glad urs aren't as bad as mine. 4 me they fill my head completely, & when that happens my body tries to act upon it. I olmost ran across my PE gym, & grabbed the girl I liked. it was humiliating because I zoned out, and when I came to I had taken 2 steps forward and was lifting my arm toward her.