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Why do women have sex in order to "trap" a man?

I have seen this happen over the years way too many times, nearly became a victim to it. I feel this is really raunchy and downright wrong for women... Show More

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  • Let me type real sl-o-o-w so you get this.babies don't come from storks they come from SEXA sperm meets and egg and a baby is created.You learn that sh_t in High SchoolUnless a girl rapes you, ties you down and pulls t your stuff out she didn't trap you--you made a decision. if she happens to not be a nice person then yes she is a skank but that doesn't erase the fact that you didn't have to sleep with her in the first place.Stop trying to blame other peope for your decision to have unprotected, condomless sex--be a man for chrissakes.If you don't want kids--USE A CONDOM--that is YOUR responsibility too. Stop putting all the blame on the girl--no one told you to stick your d_ck in her. You made a CHOICE.grown men understand that their choices can have consequences they don't try to blame other people fro their mistakes.if you don't want kids and you don't want to use a condom--DON"T HAVE SEX.If you have sex WITHOUT WRAPPING YOUR PENIS then you are as much to blame as her if she gets knocks up--don't put ALL the responsibility on the girl.what do you want--AIDS? Herpes? USE A CONDOM.My dad died of AIDS so I know what I am talking about.if you USE A CONDOM guess what?no babies and evil girls can't trick you and you won't have any one to blame for all the mistakes in your life--Ooo what a concept...Is using a CONDOM that so fricking hard Einstein?

What Girls Said 9

  • And dear--here is another novel idea--if you are so afraid of being "trapped" do like a lot of men are doing--don't have sex till you are married.

    • So even though the woman lied to the man, faked her "love" for him and left him after he wanted to commit to her and the child, it's still his fault? oh boy

    • My point is to not get in the predicament use a condom--case closed. If you use a condom then you won't have anybody get pregnant or trick you--what did she do--tie you to the bed and rape you? Tie to to the wall and force you to F-- her? You made a decision to lie down and have sex--take responsibility for your own actions. You also DON"T HAVE TO HAVE SEX AT All....again--case closed.In other words---if you don't want to be trapped don't have sex--if you have sex, use a condom.

  • You make it seem as if all women who get pregnant did it to trap a guy--sometimes pregnancy just happens due to having sex--didn't you take sex ed in class?There are those girls who feel that the guy will love her and be with her if she gets knocked up which is stupid because if he isn't into her, her getting pregnant will only make him run.On average I woudl say that in MOST cases the pregnancy simply happened because both the man and the woman were not using protection. You are a grown man--don't want to have kids or rely on the girls IUD--use a rubber.I am sorry, not be cold, but if in this day and age, with all the resources available to a man and a woman, the whole "I don't know how we got pregnant thing -- " will not wash.If a man sticks his stuff into a hole without a wrapper on it how stupid is he--especially if he didn't want to get "trapped..." he can also get STD's, so pregnancy is one of many worries,And don't believe the I AM ON BIRTH CONTROL Thing--at worst she could stop taking it and not tell you and believe it or not--the pill is on 99 percent effective meaning 1 percent of the time a woman can get knocked up while on the pill...The best way to stop men getting trapped--wear a rubber. It is 97 percent effective and if the girl gets pregnant you know she wasn't trying to trap you and it was truly an accident.In other words, take responsibility for your reproductive decisions and choices and use a rubber that way you can't get all "trapped" by evil women...other than that I have no sympathy for yah man--sorry.

  • I don't know anyone who has done this or has had this done to them. Though apparently it happens. It seems a really uneducated/lacking common sense thing to do. Also very immature. However, it takes two people to make a baby, so I think a guy is partially responsible if he falls into this trap. If he's having unprotected sex he has a responsibility to be positive that some othe contraceptive is in use. If he isn't certain, he really should be using condoms.

  • Ok, it seems like you are missing the fact that it takes two to tango. We don't make babies by ourselves (conventionally). Men need to consider the fact that if they sleep with a woman, she may get pregnant. He should then ask himself if she would be the kind of woman he would raise a child with if he did indeed impregnate her. Wise women know, a baby has never kept a man and never will. I do agree that this happens all too often but the men are a party in the woman getting pregnant so they should be more cautious about who they sleep with especially if they don't want to get "Trapped".

  • Thank god I don't know anyone who would do something like that. It definitely makes the rest of us look bad. Frankly, I can't wrap my head around it either. They've obviously got some serious problems that you don't want to get caught up in. One more reason to wrap it up, every time.

  • Yeah, you are right. Some woman do do this! BUT there are definitely more guys out there that just have sex with people for the hell of it and leave. I don't know very many girls that do that, yeah some. But not very many! Maybe they got tired of being used by the guys. Ever think of that?

  • Oh hunny don't get me started my big sister she is in her twenty's ever since she was 17 every guy she has dated, of course I am her little sister I went through her stuff you no like all kiddies do read her little love note's everyone she would talk about wanting to have a child with her boyfriend not because she wants a baby but because she wants to keep him forever, and she assumes having a baby will tie a lock on his ankle xDshe currently has on child at the age of one love him to death the father haven't heard from him in god no's when probably since you seen the last dinosaur prance the earth x]she well is with some guy they financially can not support another child hell no pleaseI mean they need another child like dustin diamond needs another sex tape xDwell guess what surprise she is 4 months preggo with his fking eggo lovely,I bet she just got preggy on purpose so she can always have a chunk of her new man thinking if he ever leaves she can have a excuse on two legs on why he has to come see her, not because she is madly in love with him she needs a sense of security, because she is afraid he will leave her, I mean he watches girls next door, blah blah blah saying out loud in front of my sister she is decently attractive already has a I had a baby once now skinny though stretch marked body saying I would so f*** her baby O'h damn I love them blondes sister has black hair tried dying it blonde bad ideas xD anywayshe is insecure with herself knowing he would leave her easily for a quick f*** or even a fling with some bombshell if he got the opportunity, though my sister thinks since I have his baby maybe he will hesitate in leaving me maybe that will make him stay sohe will always be mine forever (Insert horror movie laugh here) so while he maybe talking to some sexy gorgeous lady at the bar, or mall in the back of his little mind my sister, and her preggo tummy will be standing there like a haunting conscious beating the back of his brain. Though my sister thinks that will make him stay with her. He could easily leave her just as easily as he got her preggy,even if he cheats on her, secretly dates another girl she will be okay knowing he is the one who comes home to her, and the excuse baby! Well that's what I assume.

  • because they don't know the game. they must don't watch maury. there's millions of single mothers raising kids by themselves because daddy is gone so you would think nobody would try to trap a man anymore because it obviously doesn't work. its dumb on the womans part because no matter what we are stuck with the kid. a man can leave at any point but usually women are stuck holding the bag.as far as men...they need to think with their big head instead of the little one. basic biology tells you that if you have sex there's a chance you could get pregnant and condoms aren't 100% so you can't get mad at the female if she gets pregnant. you had a part in it too

What Guys Said 1

  • I have a friend named Tina Winkler, she is ugly as sin and was being used by a man, or shall I say womanizer. She purposely got pregnant and the dude was so embarrased he quit talking to her. Now she got an ugly little girl who looks just like her. Serves her right, that baby will grow up and know her momma was desperate for a baby. On the down side, men if you are using an ugly duckling for some sex, use a condom, then you don' t gotta worry about anyone finding out you was doing the ugly with Miss Ugly herself. Men are dogs and will use you for sex...Get a clue peeps!

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