Guys, how long would you want to stay in the vag?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I did it without a condom, and he ejaculated onto my stomach. But the thing is he was in me for only less than like two minutes altogether. Was this a courteous thing of him to do to decrease the chances of pregnancy and my discomfort? (I was a virgin, he wasn't) I did give him a couple blowjobs in between, so it must've been at least 15-20 minutes from the time he got hard to when he actually ejaculated, but normally would guys want to stay longer in the vag?

[Crazycanuck]

First things first I'm going to be brutally honest with you...Sex without a condom is over and beyond Stupid even if a guy "pulls out in time"...Because when guys are aroused they produce a something called precum a guys natural lube now precum can contain a small amount of sperm and you could get pregnant/catch something from that when his in you pounding away.(If you don't believe me Google it)...Just do yourself a favor and use proper protection from here on out be it condoms, the pill, ect...

Now to the question it really depends on the guy and his experience...Most virgins and guys with little experience usually last around the two minute mark...The average guy can with average experience can last about 10 to 15 minutes...But it also depends on the guys kink depending on if he likes oral or anal over vaginal intercourse...

[Trinity04]

Personally, I like to stay in awhile. Sometimes guys just can't hold out long. The fact that he had been going for 15 or so mins, and then after inserting his penis in, it set off the rockets. Especially with you being a virgin. I am going to assume you are pretty tight. Or maybe he might have been being courteous. It boeing your first time, I will guess it hurt like hell?

[Asker]

Luckily it didn't hurt like hell :) It was uncomfortable but I did try to relax and squeeze at the same time. Maybe the tightness plus the squeezing was too much for him :P

[Trinity04]

Yea, the squeezing probably did it. My girl does that when she wants me to orgasm with her. It works too!

[Anonymous]

Yes, he ejaculated on your stomach to try to avoid pregnancy. I think we've all done the pull and pray thing at some point in our lives. Just be aware that withdrawal is only 76% effective, so you might want to look into other means of birth control if pregnancy isn't an option for you right now.

[stercor]

Um, there's sperm in the clear stuff from a guy.

Depends on the guy.

One of the best girlfriends I had would stop me when I was about to come, because she wasn't yet ready. When she was neither of us held back. It was marvelous.

Ted

[Anonymous]

tsk tsk..two minute brother...I can't say I've never been there but he needs to first master **** before he can master the pussy.

To answer your question though it really depends. Sometimes we're tired and just want to bust a nut. Other times we want to take our time and savor the moment. In either case a real man wants to watch and feel his woman climax before exiting.

[Anonymous]

Long enough to bust a nut... Twice

[Anonymous]

maybe you were so tight he couldn't hold it any longer?

[Asker]

So is that a good thing? Haha.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah it's good for sure, maybe he was just really excited that time