Girls, what do you find physically in a man attractive?

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Do you like tall men or can they be of average height? Do you like men with striking male features or with more delicate, female features?

ekspain · Accepted Answer

Man! You're like the 100th guy on here that's asked that question...or maybe you've asked that question a hundred times...never satisfied eh?

Well I'll tell you again. Its a big friggen cock, man. Get with it. Women love it when I mans got a huge penis, and she can see a huge bulge down there.

Some women, as I've recently learned, prefer masculine types, others the more androgynous types, i.e. Jude Law, Matt Damon, em...Dicaprio, etc. But rarely will a women appreciate the beauty of Jude Law and George Cluny for example. Its either one or the other.

The question is rather, would a woman prefer a man with a thick large penis, who's not that attractive, but not that ugly, OR a man with a teeny weeny, who's as cute as, say, Clooney (if you're in to that) or Law (if you're in to THAT)

You know what really sucks. I was planning one of my bi- monthly trips to Paris this month, and I don't have any extra cash as it turns out. So much debt- have to pay of my credit card, etc...really bumming me out. I try to make it over there at least once every 2 months...

In lieu of that I'll visit my girl friend in Santiago, a beautiful place really, highly recommend it.

By the way, my girlfriend is a case in point. She prefers more androgynous beauty...with a apollinian form. sinewy, thick large lips... Its also important how you kiss a woman, but I digress. So as I was saying...Damn I'm a little depressed about not going to Paris and Rouen.

France is my favorite place in the whole world, apart from California and India. And Amsterdam, and London...

Zingbat · Accepted Answer

I'm going to throw some fuel in for you to think on as well as whatever they say... If you are looking to improve physicque. Some of the first things women unconsciously look at to determine a hint of masculinity is your forearms not your biceps, your traps (the muscle between your shoulder and your neck), a moderate stomach (is it a beer belly?), and calves. The ideal woman does not need a 6 pack on every guy. She just wants him to take care of himself.

Men are suppose to be masculine...so don't *try for feminine traits. Nothing hot about beating you in everything physical.

Height varies man...you just take your cards and deal...some shorter men can pull off taller women but they have to have game. Usually the male is taller then female..if that rule is followed neither party would complain ever.

Hope it helps

-zing

-StillWater- · Accepted Answer

Strictly physically speaking --- My PERFECT man would be tall (195 cm...or perhaps 200 cm) - {even though I'm 160 cm xD}, pale skinned - perhaps freckles, red/orange longish hair, big green eyes, big nose (not wide, but long and elegant - think Adrien Brody ^_^), lips...I don't really care, but with all of the rest written here I'd say on the smaller side, but plump, wide shoulders (swimmer xD), average weight-has to actually have a butt, beautiful big manly hands(meaning palms/fists - not arms per se) - long fingers, beautiful smile- great teeth, looks good with or without a beard, has a good fashion sense, puts colors well together and is a bit quirky.

Now that I've written all of this, I have to say that I realize no one like this actually exists! xD Haha But I sure had fun writing my fantasy down. . . ^_~

Standingpretty · Accepted Answer

As for just looks, average height is OK but I prefer really tall, skinny guys with kind of an up-side-down triangular body. I like guys with big arms and shoulders, yet still skinny. I like guys with tan or beige skin, big lips that are dark in color, dark eyes, oval shaped face, kind of pointy nose, rectangular teeth(not squarish), brunette, big ears, thick eyebrows but not extremely thick, long straight fingers, big hands and feet, long-ish hair but not too long, well-groomed. Yeah, those are all my physical attractions :] I would say I'm definitely attracted to the more masculine males in looks.

Brooke101 · Accepted Answer

I'm a small girl, 5'2", so height isn't a huge factor, but I'm drawn to taller guys. I like the defined jaw-line, but thicker facial features. like... I'm not a fan of guys with delicate or thin noses, or skinny cheeks.

I don't like them scrawny; I like a little brawn. Nice arms = big turn on for me. I like broad shoulders. A little 5 o'clock shadow here and there. Deep set eyes. A nice smile/good teeth.

That makes me sound like I'm really picky; those are just my favorite features. I can find attractive features in just about anyone.

luv2bexpert · Answer

Strong physically (I focus on muscular neck, facial features, arms, and hands)

Average to tall (5'10" and above)

Thick lips (I have thick lips, so I'm up for the competition)

The way he stands and walks (Confident and straight)

A strong handshake (I wanna a man, not a sissy)

Eye contact with guests and family

Dark hair is my preference (a little facial scrub is sexy for a couple days)

prettyj · Answer

i love tall rugged, husky men, with strong chins and thick hair. having said that I have met some smaller guys that have a "sweet young look to them" but they are funny and sharp as a tack, and even tho the physical component is not what I am used to, they are incredibly attractive to me. that with and sense of humor takes them a long long way.

liltaylz911 · Answer

i like tall men, but not over 6'2. id like them to be the average weight, maybe a little more built on top. the features I like on a man is thick hair, and gorgeous brown eyes, a nice smile, and maybe some five oclock shadow to give that really "manly" affect. I like when a mans hands are clean, they take good care of themselves and always smell good. - I hope this helped=D goodluck!

KayleighP · Answer

Ok, I will be very predictable and say height wise, taller than myself (5 5), and to have not massive steroid muscles, but toned is all good. : ) hair should always be well looked after because it's such an important part of a person, in my own opinion. Not to be weird, but good teeth, (ugh, I sound like a horse vet) but a nice smile is always really charming. ^ ^

jeeperss · Answer

-TALL

-manly looking, especially a bit of a shadow but nothing that looks hobo-ish...

-well defined muscular arms

-not very hairy. I don';t really like hair..

-short hair. I hate guys with long hair, pony-tails, etc.

-doesn't have to be a six-pack but nice abs

-nice smile i.e. teeth

-androgynous also I guess. I don;' think so but I've been told my tastes are more so.

CuddlyCarla · Answer

Honestly, it depends on the person. I have dated short, medium, and tall. I've dated blond hair, brown hair, reddish hair, black hair... all different eye colors and features. I've been attracted to men with masculine and ones with feminine features. Beauty is skin-deep, a person's brain, heart, and personality are far more important to most women. Don't believe the stereotypes!

the-love-guru · Answer

I like heels, so dating a guy that's at least 5'11" is great. Physically, I'm not too picky. But I love expressive eyes. Any color, just as long as they have that "longing" to them. Know what I mean?

I always loved the darker guys (I'm Italian and Portuguese), but I fell for a super white Dutch guy with light curly hair and blue eyes... how's THAT for ironic? In the end, the looks don't matter. It's all in the personality. :)

Edwardcullensgirl1 · Answer

Tall men definitely. And striking male features. I find tall men very attractive I don't like short men and average height is fine as long as they are not my height or short than me

MoreLikeFlying · Answer

I like them taller than me, which is 5'4. And even if it's by just and inch. xD Like lean boys, skinny boys. I do kind of like the delicate features, but more of the Boyish look .:3 I do like it when it's obvious that they're a guy, even if they ARE a little girly. :P

Reeses-pieces777 · Answer

-taller than me

-clean shaven

-about one inch of hair on his head so he can style it different

-a bit muscular

-emotionally stable and caring

-a little feminine is ok but I'd rather have a masculine guy

-taller and a bit muscular so I feel I acn be protected and safe in his arms.

-hot eyes and hygeinic

Justbug87 · Answer

I am not a short or tiny girl so I like a big guy. He doesn't have to be ripped but I don't want fat either. I'm 5'9" so I like a guy about 6' so I can still wear heal and not be eye to eye. I don't want to be beat on but I like the guy to be the one in charge. I like big arms but they are just a plus not a have to. but very important is the guy to smell good and be clean (veryimportant)

vballbutterfly · Answer

this is my dream guy

blue eyes

straight dark hair

a couple inches taller (im 58)

not tan but a little pale

freckles

a little muscular but not buff

none of these things matter if we don't connect personality wise though

WolffyLove · Answer

Taller than me, not a lot of muscle, nice solid arms, grabable waist, soft but structured face, thick neck, broad shoulders, nice teeth, clean face (little or none facial hair and no acne), seductive eyes, and a nice walk.

cmitch · Answer

my experience... all girls have a type but personality overrides it all. Now it doesn't hurt to be easy on the eyes, but most women I've found place confidence and a good head on the shoulders above all else.

curiosa18 · Answer

usually taller than me rarely do I date men shorter than me by a few inches

but if his personality is beyond than itll do!

somewhat of strong features at least his arms.. niether skinny nor fat would be nice.

confident in most things! depends on how facial hair looks on him

whichever looks best! a nice smile is a great plus! =]

sweett_bunz · Answer

for me I don't really care I go on personality.I go on things the guy can do RANDOM YES I KNOW like for  over a year I only liked bboys.I think going on looks is shalloW NO OFFENCE TO ANYONE I mean I would rather be with the person for them not for there looks.so your with a hot guy

katiesmuff · Answer

Cute facial features is a starter, nice butt, and nice penis.  Helps a lot if he has a great sense of humor

kailar · Answer

I like a guy that's taller then me. I'm average height. About 5'4 so it shouldn't be that hard. I also like guys with wider faces. And I tend to like guys that have some tone or no tone at all. I don't want some hugely muscle-y guy. That's a turn off for me. I like them imperfect because I'm imperfect.

Glasses are hot on guys too! Ooh and facial hair, like a beard or something.

miki94 · Answer

ok, taller or my height. I find wide shoulders also very sexy. Dark hair and eyes. Of course more striking male facial features. As for his weight, he can be average... But what I absolutely don't like is a skinny guy that looks good in a skirt. He doesn't have to be buffed, some guys over do it, which is also unattractive for me...

Yet I have to point out, that I remember falling for guys who were an opposite to some of these features. So, if he impresses me with his personality, I might just change my mind. =P

Anthony2022 · Answer

I'm 6'4" O_o trying to get abs like The Situations haha I'm actually pretty damn close too.

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