A woman's / girls genitals , are really unique in just how complex they really are. I have never failed to look at a girls genitals before either going down on her or before penetration. It is wet if she is excited, and that is part of the 'thrill' if you will. I like to see what her clitoris looks like and if she is engorged with blood etc, and more sensitive. The labia are very exciting to see and touch, if a guy is a very 'tactile' person, he enjoys the 'feel of them, If a girl has not had children, there is very little if any stretching of the labia and everything is very "close" and compact, but you can't tell how tight the vagina is just by looking at it.
For my part, the wetter and more slimy it is, the better. I would compare it to looking at a flower that is partially opened, similar to a rose bud opening, for lack of a better description.
Having pubic hair around it, partially 'covers' it and adds to the mystery of just how it looks.
Does that partially answer your question ?