He says he wants to lick me down there?

[Anonymous]

okay I'm in a long distance relationship tho we haven't fought at all and we've been together for a little over 2 months..and..uhh..my boyfriend says he's a virgin..but..he says he's done sexual things like licking..and I know we are meeting soon(don't worry I'm safe)..and..i can honestly c us in the future..but I know when we get to the point when we start doing those things..i know he'll want to do that to 'relieve' me..but..idk y but I'm so nervous about it..like idk..like he says he enjoyed it..and I honestly asked him if the girls enjoyed it too and if it tasted bad or not..but what if I'm not the same..and I've asked him this and he says he doesn't care..he believes for some reason that if a guy really loves a girl and vice versa that they will both enjoy it..tbh I don't really kno what I'm asking but I hope I get a little feedback on people who have gone through this b4..or just want to help. please! I'm practically freaking out. :x

[TiffanyRose]

Girl don't rush things if you don't feel comfortable tell him. I didn't do anything with a guy tell I was 19 going on 20 and its not that I was big into saving myself or that I am bad looking I had a lot of guys most in long distance relationship. some times its better to wait. plus only talkin over phone and not actually seeing each other in person is different...ALOT. you don't know how the true person is. You don't want to do things with him and than if something happens and you don't hear from him again. feel bad about it. just take it slow and get to REALLY know each other.

hope this helps

[Jarett]

how old is he? How old are you?

[kaybee]

Does it matter?

[Jarett]

Do you think it matters if she is 14 and the guy is 22?

[JustDance]

Lol age matters.... and besides you should be asking us... DO YOU want him to go down on you? if you say no, that its no. don't let someone pressure u