How easy is it for a guy to get turned on?

When my boyfriend and I are cuddling, one of his hands is around me and the other is on my stomach. His hand eventually starts moving up and down my body, and his breathing changes.


Most Helpful Guy

  • super easy I mean us guys can get turned on at any time over anything especially someone we're are attracted to. usually any type of contact from someone else aka you will give us a boner. for example just making out most guys will get a boner sum times even just holding hands or sitting in his lap will turn him on.just being able to touch your body in his mind is a turn on and very physically sexy so yes we can get turned one very easily especially during our teens and twentys. many guys deny getting a boner just from grinding but trush is every guys gets hard unless there's a major turnoff that he's thinking about. hope this helps

    • He does like me sitting on his lap, lol!

    • Haha wel now you know

What Guys Said 7

  • He's been aroused before (from you) and is probably nervous / scared to pursue anything sexual with you. So feeling your body is his way of imagining how awesome the sensations will be in the future. Woman that are extremely attractive only need to walk into a room for many guys to become aroused.

    (Sarcasm) - Monkey see, monkey do!



    • Is that really true? A guy can get turned on just by finding a woman attractive?

    • At first encounter, yes - if he has been dating with her and has a perception which is NEGATIVE - it will counter any "good" arrousals.. For instance - I find my previous relationship very attractive, but I don't become arroused when she is near, because she would always "nag" about becoming pregnant - which is a turn off.

      The hottest guy could walk into the room - and you would become arroused. If he started talking about pokemon though, it's a deal breaker.

  • (funny) He probably gets turned on the second he sees you - it's all the 'level of being turned on' from that point.

  • Really easy just seeing or thinking about a girl can turn us on. Does he get a boner if you do that, we can get one of those just dancing with a girl. If he has liked you a long time even hand holding can be erotic. Be cautious. If you don't want to have sex(he does from your description) let him know long before there is too much touching he will probably accept that but it can get awkward because guys are sort of like a train when we get turned on its not easy to put on the brakes

  • some times all it takes is a slight breeze.

  • he has an asthma? what's up with breathing?

  • Yea we get turned on very easily I get hard when a girl sits in my lap


What Girls Said 5

  • Really easily.. The funniest thing that turns a lad on is two girls.. When he's not even touching them..

    • I agree. My boyfriend and I were at a friends house and we were all sitting on the couch, he was in the middle, I was on one side, and my friend was on the other. He put his arms around both of us and said "I really like this. Two girls and a guy, my dream has come true." He was just kidding but I thought it was the funniest thing ever.

    • Almost every lad loves it.. One of his girl-friends kissed me.. And he said "That's the hottest thing I've ever seen" hahaha

  • it seems like you already turned him on. nice try

    • I think I did too. I finally just asked him if he gets turned on and he said "every time I see you". I was like Awe!! lol

  • That reminds me for an ex, it creeped me out. It was weird. I wasn't into it.

  • Can they get turned on by another girl that is not their own girlfriend?

  • yes, guys can be turned on really easily.

    case in point: my boyfriend and I were talking on the phone as he was on his way home because he was working late one night. he asked what I was wearing and I told him ending with me telling I had on my black g-string. next thing I knew, he was on my doorstep. lol

    • Haha! ok, that's funny.