I have had some women say that they prefer to give a man oral separately. They find that if they are doing 69 that they cannot concentrate on the "giving" when they have a tongue on their clit. Also, they prefer to have a guy focusing on giving them pleasure and want the man to focus on her pleasure.
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For me I find 69 very uncomfortable. If I am in position to do my thing to him, he is straining to get his mouth in my honey pot, and if he is right on target I can't get his thing in my mouth. Besides that I love the feeling of a good tongue job and how can you concentrate on this if you are trying to entertain the guy at the same time. That works both ways.0